People who live in functional and safe countries, how happy are you?
For those of us who live in the US things are and have been scary and depressing for a while, this seems to also be true about quite a few more countries in the world.
If you are living in a country that you deem safe, well functioning and overall a good country to live in, how do you feel? Do you feel anxious about the current state of the world? Also, what country are you in? (Just in case 🫣)
I live in Germany and we have an election coming up where the far right might win. And the US have just handed command of the most powerful military of the world to a certified moron who works for their biggest adversary. That's somewhat concerning, isn't it?
We got our first woman president who keeps wowing us with comprehensive initiatives and continuing the work of our last president who got us on the right track. Great reforms are happening after a long string of corrupt presidencies that were more interested in personal gain. We had actual government efficiency reviews that cut down on misappropriated funds that have now been reinvested. And we're expanding our exports to things like chipset manufacturing and growing our infrastructure.
Our public spaces are prettier, cleaner, more accessible, and quite modern here in the large cities. I know that my city alone is not what it used to be 10 or even 5 years ago. I keep saying we're not a third world country anymore. We're on our up and up so long as the international powers that be allow it.
That's amazing! So glad to hear it. Don't let those assholes to the North talk down to you. Sounds like you have a functioning Democracy and you'll be able to hold that over our heads for decades I'm sure.
I think it largely depends on where you are and who you associate with. I also think cartel violence isn't what it used to be. I'm not aware of any reputable gangs here where I live, but we do hear news about the shit cartels pull occasionally, like for example the narcobloqueos where they hijack a truck, park it across on the highway and set it on fire to cause a diversion or things like that.
Overall it's very rare to hear about them taking it out on the general population. There's an unspoken rule not to mess with the innocent although there are dangerous states like Sinaloa or areas of Michoacán where it goes down when the military intervenes. That's when the gloves come off and they fight back by all means necessary, including using terror tactics for the government to back off.
But besides the cartel violence, kidnappings are what scare me the most. There have been many, many cases of people being held & maimed for ransom or simply disappeared without a trace, although I'm not sure how much of that can be attributed to the cartels because they target journalists. It's undeniably a serious problem for many folks who are at risk by association, proximity or happenstance. Thankfully anti-kidnapping legislation and its enforcement has been tightened up in recent years.
Despite all that, these things are largely in the periphery in our day to day meaning I don't live in fear. I generally live carefree and comfortably without denying that I do know some folks who have had scary episodes with organized crime in the past. But it's quite surprising how much more peaceful our everyday life is than what you're told abroad, even if it's something we struggle with in the grand scheme of things.
Still pretty bad according to my mexican friends, I wouldn't go as a tourist personally, this is the only time ive seen the take that Mexico is safe and nice now. (the parts for rich ppl to vacation have never been an issue) Btw the first gen mexicans I know are prob the most against illegal immigration because of their experiences going back across the border. (for context, I am not on their side, mfs are just the lucky ones who were born here) They all have relatives in cartels/gangs but not out of choice, every story ive heard just sounds extremely sus, even when its fun, theyll be like yeah nah theyd rob you tho dont go there.
Basically look up best vacation spot, highest income area in mexico and youll be fine.
I'm so happy for you! I would have loved it if USA voters would have chosen a woman socialist/Communist president. I hope the current turn of events gets neighbors talking and planning enough to get us there!
Germany. While I do feel like my country is overall still safe and a good place to live, it feels to me like we're on the brink. The US may well drag us down with them and even if they don't, our own politicians might just do that on their own. So yeah, quite anxious and not overly optimistic right now. The next few years will be critical and it could go either way really.
Left Germany for Switzerland and while I never really felt unsafe in Germany, it's so much more relaxed here. And I start to really appreciate direct democracy.
I can imagine. Switzerland is in many ways in quite a unique, privileged position in Europe. I've gotten job offers in Switzerland but personally, I don't really mesh with its culture. If I ever move away, I think it'll either be somewhere like The Netherlands, or even a lot further away, like New Zealand or Japan.
I go back and forth between lamenting that corporate propaganda created this state of things, and lamenting that so many people are dumb enough to fall for it. Calling voters dumbasses doesn't solve anything, but I'm definitely thinking it a lot lately.
Feeling as happy and as safe as ever. Granted, I don't pay a lot of attention to our politics cos it's just a bunch of little children fighting over who gets to play in the sandbox but it says something that I CAN be ignorant of our politics without being scared that something drastic is going to happen while I'm not looking.
My biggest concern is honestly that Australia has a habbit of following whatever inclinations big Daddy USA is following and for that reason the state of affairs over there is a little worring to me.
Isle of Man. We have farmers that run the government.
They are terrible at it, and its stupid, but we dont have power to rename a sea, so they mostly just argue amongst themselves and the rest of us get on with it.
Postage takes longer and is more expensive. We cant get a lot of the services the UK gets. We still dont have 5g.
That being said its one of the safest places to live in the British isles.
So I dont know, swings and roundabouts.
The biggest problems are with 50 year old men in a bit of a mid life crisis buying a big, expensive bike, and then getting on a road with no speed limit. They lose control and kill themselves, and if they are unlucky, take someone else with them.
I dont count the racers, its like punching yourself in the balls and wondering why you are walking funny.
UK. It's actually alright here despite our culture of complaining about everything.
Weather is predictably dull and boring, but in a world of climate change that's not such a bad thing anymore.
Wages are outpacing the cost of living once again so that's nice.
Politics is just the usual arguing/ bitching about the economy. Everyone blaming each other blah blah blah. Storm in a teacup really.
US news is getting a bit scary, seeing the president cosying up with the enemy and appearing to want to let them take Ukraine in exchange for half of their minerals means that I don't think we'll be considering them a close ally in the near future. At least not a reliable one.
Is guatemal more functional than the US' recent attempted violent coup and literal ongoing executive coup of the government?
Yes. Guatemala is more functional than the US government run by a felon rapist who is literally violating the US Constitution, has frozen or defunded critical government operations and is actively erasing the function of its legislative and judicial branches via executive orders.
safe?
last time I was in the states, somebody shot someone else in the head over a parking spot outside the burger place I was eating lunch at.
All the fucking right wing wankers are feeling empowered and crawling from under the rocks thanks to the blond Cheeto you guys idiotically voted as president. Economy is going to shit. This is a nice peaceful sunny European country and we're suffering with your idiocy. So not very happy. At all.
Sweden is a functional country for the most part, but we are small in a geopolitical context.
In daily life I feel mostly fine, I have a decent job (I am on the bus to work right now), I have a good apartment (if a bit small), just ordered a new desk for my home setup, in general you can feel society bracing against "Drumpf & Puttler's Crazy Wild Ride: The Rise of Ketamine boy".
Biggest news lately, the school shooting in Örebro, terrible shit, and the coward perpetrator didn't have the decency to survive so we'll probably never know his motives which would help us prevent this in the future.
Locally we have had some small scale scandals recently, politicians disliked by most citizens but with connections getting new jobs either barely following the process or outright ignoring it, nationalistic party have their scandal politicians, other politicians scamming money from the government.
We recently had a news story about an islamist being hired as a teacher and raping a student, that guy was rejected by the security service when applying to be a security guard before being a teacher.
Personally this is how I feel when reading the news lately:
As it stands now, I will just focus on myself and my family and friends, the current US regime is dancing to the tune of a dictatorship and I try to stay far away.
I live in the Netherlands. Happy? Sure. Could always be better.
For how it is in the Netherlands politics wise, it's quite a mess. The biggest party is led by a rightwing nutjob who supports Israel and doesn't give a shit about Ukraine. And main focus is Immigrants bad blablabla.
That party isn't in complete control though since they have to work with 3 other parties to get a majority so that is at least something.
We had 2000 explosions at peoples houses last year. Which is insane. Guns aren't legal so people import heavy fireworks from italy (which are basically grenades) and blow it up in front of their house, or burn down their cars, to threaten them I guess.. They pay teenagers to do it for them. So the real culprits never get caught.
I saw 3 cars burn down in my neighbourhood in the last few years.
Housing prices are insane. Probably in most well running countries atm. I don't have high hopes of getting a house anytime soon. And my rent just keeps going up.
Oh no not immigrants. Seems to be mafia practices of scaring away competition. apparently lots of plumbing and roofing companies are just controlled by organized crime. It's weird. Also just personal feuds.
Not to rub it in, but I moved from the US to Scandinavia (during Biden's presidency) and while I have plenty of problems and stresses there's a relief to the safety and stability of it that I didn't realize I was missing in the US.
Life is far from perfect here but it's all in all better than life was in the US for us, and I feel that would be even more true as time goes on.
Also sorry about wtf is going on to you (presumably) over there.
I have high school aged children so all of the sabre rattling is unsettling to me. I would love my kids to maybe explore degree programs outside of the US because I don't see things getting better anytime soon. I don't want them sucked into some bullshit conflict started by that guy.
Flanders, Belgium.
Things are... okay-ish, but I feel like we're balancing on an edge, and any little push will topple the current regime and bring power to the far-right parties who continue to gain ground every election.
At this point in time, our little country has one of the least unequal societies in the world in terms of income. Something tells me that in say 10 years we'll look back to today and reminisce about the "good old days"...
As a Canadian who generally fits this category, i am fairly privileged, have all my basic needs met and some security for the future under status quo conditions. I have my struggles, but they have not so much to with marginalization or oppression. But it depends on who you are. Indigenous women are still going missing, racists are still gonna racist, billionaires are still exploiting people struggling with food and housing security, etc. same goes for the USA. For millions of Americans who are upper-middle/upper class, heteronormative, and white, life is continuing on just fine, feeling safe and experiencing a government that functions as well as it ever has from their perspective. They're too busy living their lives to get caught up in the "noise of angry squabbling of childish politicians". Maybe expenses have gone up, but they can still sustain all their expectations out of life. He'll you can imagine there are a not insignificant proportion of the Russian population are like this.
Not from a "functioning safe country", but I just want to say: No matter where I go, things are just fucked.
I was born in PRC, and the Rural areas doesn't even have bathrooms in your own home, and you'd have to go to a shared bathroom in the village. In the city, I don't have a Hukou (Household Registration), so you're basically an "illegal immigrant" inside your own country (and, as many of you know, its very authoritarian). And even the city, there is problems with finding a job because theres like 1/7 of the world population in the country. Then I got to the US and casual racism is everywhere, and even Chinese Americans classmates (who are born in the US) refuse to stand up for me against racism.
Now its declining into fascism.
Wow, the bad luck just follows me everywhere doesn't it?
Hey EU, wanna give me political asylum? (Hopefully the bad luck doesn't follow me into the EU lol)
I’ve seen people saying “oh the AfD only has like 20% support” like the US didn’t vote Trump into power with only 25% of the population. Also, 20% of a population supporting literal nazis is something to be concerned about.
Sweden. I'm happy. But I have a hard time watching the rise of a fascist dictator and the collapse of the dollar reserves as the planet still gets eviscerated by mega corpos entities several orders of magnitude more powerful than any government. What I wish most is that the humans that do the biddings of the megacorps realised that they are just temporarily allowed to be their "ceo" or "cfo" and that in reality they are being used but the allure of money as a means of success, while mindlessly ignored goes the fact that joy and success is found in people that avoid money as much as possible. The demons can and should be revoked the status of being "legal humans" and correctly categorised as entities that exist to serve and protect humans. How can so many people be revoked the status of human and even killed while the destructive hateful entities that ruin our souls and habitat are continually worshipped by its zealots when they provide net negative happiness and health is so tragic.
EU, Im trying to not focus on politics around the world and especially the US, scared about russia and USA would drag us down but when Im not thinking about politics Im very happy in my life right now
In the UK, it's not great, and seems to be on the down trend like everywhere else, but right now it's a decent enough place to live - definitely a lot better than the US.
Canada. Could be a lot better, but I'm happy that we're not currently doing as badly as they are south of the border.
I've been working relatively high-paying precarious positions, but my circumstances have allowed me to build myself a safety net. So even if the government can't support me should something go wrong, I can support myself, at least for a time.
I currently have enough money to engage in hobbies and socialize. What I'm currently wishing for is more time.
I haven't had a paid sick day in my life, though I have had a couple "We can't give you a paid sick day, but we can pay you to do light work from home" in the last couple of years. The last time I had a paid vacation day and a job still lined up was in 2020. Though I do get statutory holidays, so it's not terrible.
First world problems. Overall, I'm happy with my life. This year, I'm looking to turn my precarious positions into a full-time gig. If that doesn't work out, I'll try to turn my side-gig into a full-time thing (and take the pay cut in exchange for life satisfaction). And if neither of those works out, I have my safety net which should be able to carry me through until I can get more contracts. And my partner may be looking at income increases next year, which should make everything easier.
Things haven't always been this good for me, but I'm happy with where they are and where they're going.
Yeah, and as someone who is actively trying to vote for improvement, I'm disappointed time and time again at people who think we should be comparing ourselves to the US's metrics and not the rest of the developed world. We could be doing so much better.
There aren't any of those, but we do have a centre-left government (for now), we're doing alright economically and still have a semblance of a social security safety net.
Mostly what it feels like is that the US and Russia are now both adversaries and this lasts only until their disinformation warfare wins the day or they attack us directly otherwise. We're not "safe" because we're not safe from you and the other couple of idiots that are still married to the old "superpower" idea. If you want to know how I feel, then, it's mostly "really, really angry at any liberal of leftist that did not show up for Harris the way they did for Biden or Obama".
I wouldn't say I'm happy, necessarily. But I'm content.
I have everything I need in terms of basic needs but I suffer from depression, and I have two eighty year-old parents who have borrowed my car for nearly a year driving for DoorDash. My anhedonia keeps me leveled out 99% of the time, so when I'm happy or sad it generally manifests as a manic episode.
Even though my country is generally functional and safe, it's really only that way if you have money. That DoorDash job is the only the standing between my parents and homelessness because no one will employ them, the government doesn't care if they become homeless or starved, and my dad is too old too roof houses.
The USA isn't particularly functional at the moment, but I'd hesitate to say it's lost much of the safety it had YET.
Most are still going to work, not being robbed, not being shot in the street, and so forth SO FAR.
Those things may change, but I'd be cautious about calling the USA unsafe until it actually is. I'd still rather be in most of America than most of, say, Syria right now from that standpoint.
USA. Despite what people will tell you around here we aren't crumbling to bits or shooting each other in the streets.
What the federal government does has ultimately very little effect on my day to day life. I go to work. I come home. I get high and pet my cats too much. I play video games with friends I've made over the course of my life. I eat dinner and I crash. I'll repeat this pattern all week and then on weekends I do chores and visit friends/family.
Other than that everything is still functional. Safety hasn't gone up or down. It's still exactly as safe as it was under Obama and Biden eras. Pretty safe as long as you avoid certain places or hanging out with the wrong crowds.
8/10. Room for improved always but I'm not really concerned.
This feels a bit out of touch. Firstly, anywhere in the USA, even Mississippi, is richer than almost anywhere else in the world in dollar terms. That is always going to buy a certain level of function and safety compared to most countries in the world, which are, well, poor. Next, "the US" is continent-sized federation. Vermont, say, is clearly safer and more functional, by any measure, than all but handful of independent countries.
In terms of figures, the USA is currently #43 out of 105 in the Safety Perceptions Index. Admittedly not a great score (but I can't help noticing that #1 is Uzbekistan, which is a literal police state). Even harder to measure "functional" but the US is at #20 out of 193 in the Human Development Index, which measures wealth, education and healthcare.
Whatever the current frame of mind of Americans, it's important to remember that the USA remains a privileged place.
you are maybe talking about statistics and "the avarage person" but this doesn't mean anything to individuals, especially when talking about something as big as the USA. While I am a privilaged person and don't pretend to be in some terrible position, this does not change the fact that the USA is so capitalistic that "the avarage person" is meaning-less, maybe a median person would be better and I'm willing to bet that a median person in the USA is not doing nearly as well as an avarage person.
But in any case, I don't care about statistics, this wasn't a question of statistics, this was a question of feelings. I am aware that the USA is big and that even if one state is bad there are still plenty of options, some of which might be great. BUT, there is still the federal goverment that is currently scary and facist, so...
Being moderately well-off doesn't mean anything when the government decides to deport you or otherwise deny you rights (abortions, anyone?). USA is also the country with (one of?) the worlds highest prison populations per capita, which is seriously fucked up. They even made inmates do firefighting in the LA fires, without proper safety equipment.