yep! that's how the trap works. a red flag is a red flag no matter how many other green flags there are. this one is clearly a boundary bulldozer. imagine everything the OP in the screenshot had to go thru to block Jessica. yet, she's still finding a way to contact them. im having flashbacks from this. 😵💫
She is dedicated, resourceful, and persistent. We don't know if she showed up at his place at 3am just to watch him sleep, so jury is out on the crazy.
it's like all sex is make up sex, but they also hate themselves and want you to agree with them. just because they are begging you to piss in their mouth doesn't mean its awesome though.
I worked at a similar company. If it's what I'm familiar with, it's mostly meant for young account owners to notify their elderly parents that there's an emergency or stop buying stuff. (A lot of people refuse to put parental controls on their parents; DO IT)
The only thing is, they're either using their ex'es service, or their ex has access to the account. If the latter is true, they need to remove their ex as a validated user, IMMEDIATELY.
Also, yes. Creepy ex'es call in all the time for thrir old partner's personal details. That's why THEY tell us to never GIVE OUT details to confirm identity. We ask for the details from the customer.