Be there for your ladies

I also love being there for my girlfriend to tie her shoe laces!

I don't want to sound like an incel, and I like eating vag/salad as much as the next guy, but imagine this image with the genders reversed

IMO either party doing this is fine as long as it's discussed and within the comfort bounds of the people in the relationship.

I think the problem is an expectation when there has been no discussion about whether or not it's within someone's limits.
- I have no issue with oral sex between consenting adults. But this meme would not be as well received if the genders were reversed. It's hard to even imagine someone posting "always be there for your man in a time of crisis" with the woman going down on the guy.
Yes i imagined it, very nice. Whats the next step?
I agree that it would look quite different with the genders reversed. However, gender equality is not like mathematical equality, where every situation needs to be reversible.

Women have traditionally been less sex-positive and less dominant, which many consider indicators of a lack of true gender equality, so a progressive community will celebrate a reversal of that.
- Bad behavior is still bad behavior, regardless of who's doing it. The oppressed engaging in the same behavior as their former oppressors is not equality, it's just more oppression.
- But situations regarding the handling of power dynamics and standards of consent/coercion absolutely should be reversible.
Nothing wrong with a consenting partner
- Yes, but not quite the point I was making
- I guess the problem is the assumption that the man is consenting. A meme is not a place to go for realistic depictions of sex, though. I think this one is playing off that to create conflict/engagement.
Everyone here will pretend they would be fine with it now that you called out the hypocrisy. Or they'll argue men deserve it as some kind of "payback", in which case it's really not about equality of course.
- I'm sorry, they'll argue that men deserve what as a form of payback? Cause you're phrasing it like there's some kind of discrmination or persecution against men going on here and I fail to see it.
What would be the issue then? 2 consenting people can show each other what they want sexually, no matter the gender
It would be fine in a porn comic, but provoke a scandal in a "regular" memes community
- There are plenty of memes which are sexist towards women. They just aren't perceived as sexist but simply as "funny".
In my mind she has a cock. She also is built like an amazon, so she can just lift me up and flip me round for some standing 69. Nice
Its the internet. No imagination needed
I didn't understand your comment at first because I thought the cartoons were both women. (I guess the one on the right had a bit of facial hair and masculine features.)

Switching it to two guys wouldn't make a difference but I can see how male-left, female-right might look worse. But it really shouldn't.

It's a short cartoon. I read it as a playful, consenting couple having fun with each other. I don't think it's one partner luring the other in on false pretenses of an emergency and forcing them to perform oral sex. The gender arrangement shouldn't affect that.
- But it would. That's the whole point.
  
  If the genders were reversed it would be seen completely differently.
  
  It shouldn't but it will.
- And yet
I ain't never dined at the Y, I am by any reasonable definition an incel..

But geez dude, lighten up.
Yeah! And that's why men are actually the ones being discriminated against! /s

You're not wrong but you're completely missing the point
- And what is that point exactly? Women get horny too some times? Men need to do oral sex more often? Please enlighten me.
Unless you have proof, this claim of yours is simply a fantasy. In fact, you can find plenty of spaces online where memes like this one, but with the genders reversed, are shared and well liked and sometimes they even mean what they depict unironically.

Actually, this very posts proofs you wrong, since yours and the comment "Bonk" (which just means "too horny") are the top liked comments.

It really does seem like you just want to soapbox an opinion.
- You can find spaces online for literally any position you like.
  
  I concede your point that my comment got upvoted but 1) I didn't know how many upvotes it would get before I commented and 2) The post itself is still heavily upvoted. I'm just offering a dissenting opinion to the post's popularity; I'm not on a soapbox.
- https://youtu.be/ppeWkO_8uQ8?si=v4d3I99Rg5pjkTEc

Bonk

Believe it or not…
- We never have boners because of horny jail!
Your username gave me some major nostalgia. I think I played iRO like nearly 20 years ago! Even rolled a Super Novice lol
- YES! Always great to meet another fan.
  
  If you look back through my comment history, I had a looong nostalgia trip with another Lemmy user about the good ol’ days.
  
  I still miss playing RO, but I usually go back and play on a pserver once a year around December. I just crave killing Elder Willows for some Dead Branches so I can fight random monsters :)

While we're on the topic. Everybody needs to read a book about pleasuring their partners.

She comes first

Her guide to going down

I'm sure you can get more focused content for your particular situation if you looked for it, but don't assume you know what You're doing. Read and make the world a better place.

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, is also a good one.

She comes first, second, third, fourth and fifth if my neck and her heart can take the strain.
Fuck her
- But you don't always have to fuck her hard
- Right in the pussy

Whatever scant humor this comic possessed, has been irretrievably destroyed by the pedants in the comments.

cunning linguists they are not.
I was really not expecting so much, i sent it to the lady im dating she laughed so i posted it. Like most comments ive ever gotten on a meme were 6.