Lemmy is still a bit strange to me, but I think I'm finally getting it to the point of being similar to what I was seeing on Reddit (albeit with much fewer users and therefore less content).
I'm glad to see the Melbourne daily thread be active here.
Seeing how few users there are on Lemmy also makes me feel like I want to be more active?! I was much more of a lurker on Reddit.
I think once any group gets too big a lot of people end up just stepping back and watching. On Reddit I always felt that it wasn't worth contributing, if you didn't get a popular reply on quickly it would end up sinking and no one would see it. The fast and loud people had lots of entertaining conversations, but there was not much space for the slow and thoughtful. You are not the first person to say you lurked on Reddit but felt you could contribute here. 🙂
I was also more of a lurker, but it is a lot less intimidating to make a comment or post here. Too many trolls, automatic downvoters and "akshually" types on Reddit. Welcome aboard!
Totally! I always hated that the conversation for something is already in full swing, so your comment wouldn't be seen by a lot of people. It's also why I like to contribute more in the DT because on the Reddit one it always felt like reading every comment was so daunting. But being able to have not many people here (with most of the comments being in replies) I can at least catch up when I get home from work or during my lunch break.
Just finished the last of this calligraphy practice. Only two mistakes!! I'm quite happy with it. I love the red water colour. :) ( oh dear, the closer I look the worse it looks ) 😂
PSA to remind people to not let their mind imagine crazy scenarios.
Friend had been distant all week and not replying to texts so I thought they'd had enough of me or I'd said something wrong.
Sent them a text saying "Hey.
If you've got a few free minutes today can you call for a quick chat?" Less than half an hour later they called me and I got to hear about all the crap going on in their life and it cheered both of us up.
Sometimes people just retreat into themselves when life gets hard or hectic and need a friend to draw them out.
I feel like retreating and I guess I have been hiding away from all my friends and family though last night I reached out to my dad because I felt like I had to finally.
This place is my last bastion of contact with people because I’m finding it real hard of late and want to hide away and disappear quite honestly.
What scenario should I not be imagining for a friend who stopped responding to texts for minimum a week each time and cancelled two catch ups, after not being able to catch up for almost 2 months because they were so busy? I’m reading signals to stop contacting them.
A photo of my shell pasta, mushrooms, chorizo, zucchini, onion, garlic, chives and chilli flakes. I forgot the tomatoes. I called it "everything that was in fridge went into my dish". It tasted way better than it looks.
Reports from a couple of mates who use it say they find this one buddy and slow to load. I assume they're on a phone. Any ideas or can I inform them of improvements.
Still, this place kicks it's butt for content also. The old daily thread seems to be a lot of the same questions people posted as posts before the great reddit blunder of 2023 which would pretty much be instantly downvoted to the bottom. Loud bangs, tailgating drivers, choppers over reservoir etc. I might be exagurating a little, but it's lost its soul nonetheless.
I feel like we flhave a natural filter that keeps the ruder Facebook users there. I would just suggest giving Jerboa a try, put the time into setting it up and subscribing to C/Melbourne+ a few major communities.
I originally made an account with lemmy.world. everything was fine until there was a big influx of users on that instance, then it all slowed down. I then made an account with aussie.zone which is clearly a much smaller instance. Much much quicker now.
I'm not sure how to let them know without seeming like we are desperate, so just casually mentioning something like "wow, I can't believe how much less activity there is on the old subreddit compared to the Lemmy community".
Edit- also... Watched like 3/4 of Jurassic World-Dominion on the plane on my phone. Not bad but pretty b-movie-esq.... I feel like 1 and maybe 3 were the only real movies, the others are just riding on the coattails...
You did better than us! The kids and I started watching it and maybe got half an hour into it before we just couldn't sustain interest in the plot or feel anything for the characters.
He is super cute, but ProcastifunPolice is here to remind people to keep cats indoors. They are relentless, ruthless killers of native wildlife and are at much higher risk of injury or death outdoors.
A walk, a mindfullness movement workshop for trans and gender diverse people later. Minecraft for chilling out and skin care. Eating the mega healthy vege stew I made the other day. AA at some stage. Also playing and chilling with my cats seems like self care too.
I'm gonna tidy up the house, and make up a batch of florentines. Now I have BF hanging around I can make treats more regularly since its not just me eating them!
In other good news, bot #001 seems to be doing better after training - has been running for a few hours without crashing & successfuly conducted a test posting. I've promised it a new wi-fi dongle tomorrow if it can manage to stay awake all night and post succesfully, hopefully that will help too 🤣
Edit: might have spoken too soon, just after I posted this it crashed again. I think it might be related to the code that is supposed to pin the posts which doesn't work (it needs to be updated for the new server edition) so I have gone through and stripped out all the code relating to that process. Finger's crossed that does it.
curry
Image: Curry. So much curry it's crazy one person ate the whole bowl. Chicken and potato massaman curry, with green beans, capsicum & tomato. Served with rice & cucumber raita.
Vote Yes in the referendum! It's a great step in the direction of implementing the Uluru Statement. My dream is for state and federal governments to have treaties with the First Nations. We could be so much more as a country!
Fantastic. I've been looking at the goddamn reddit side and it's such a racist shitshow (why, oh why did we not deal with Murdoch before this), so I'd started to lose hope. Honestly really excited to see the Yes campaign take shape!
Well Jetstar cancelled my flight for no actual reason they could give me. Also, apparently they sent an SMS and email yesterday informing me...I did not receive either, and only checked my flight on account of a comment by @the_procrastinata earlier.
My partner, who could have been an old school travel agent in another life, somehow managed to get me a better flight which the staff said was unavailable. Currently spending my $24 dollars of Jetstar food vouchers...
hashing out LED diffuse lighting for the house. Trying to convince His Lordship of the merits of an "Intruder Alert" macro that when triggered turns all the lights blood red and starts playing the imperial march.
Spending my Sunday morning doing a job application because it won't happen during the working week. It's rare for good roles to come up in my field and this one sounds perfect, so going for it. I HATE writing cover letters, never been good at it. I open with why the role has appealed to me and anything I write sounds hella corny.
I want to apologise to everyone here about having to put up and read about my side of things.
I know there are probably many others in tough positions and I’ve probably had too much a winge and complain today.
I should probably just focus on solving the problem and taking it in stride or waiting to solve the problem instead of being so down about all the worst aspects of it all and what it might mean.
It’s ok to post about your situation, you’re already ahead as you’ve realised that you need to take steps to fix it. It’d be worse if you didn’t do anything at all and just complaining. A step in the right direction. You got this
You don't have to apologise for doom posting, the community is here to offer support and venting is always welcome! I read your previous comment and it sounds like you're in a tough spot! I hope you can find some form of a solution.
Don't stress about the doom posting. We all need this space to vent also and people can understand we all have bad days and most of us are struggling with the rising costs of living.
That you've supported your partner whether it's left you in a precarious position or not is something to be really proud of. No matter how tough things get, they know you'll be there for them and that sounds like a good relationship.
Damn it. Sad to hear this. My recommendation would be is to get someone out to have a look at it. Someone local and someone who doesn't charge to come out.
I'm a chunky monkey lady with thunder thighs and am sick of shredding the thighs of my jeans. Does anyone have suggestions for good jeans that don't fall apart too quickly?
I've thought about iron on patches (or in jean colours), before to provide a bit of a buffer and prevent the jeans rubbing directly, but haven't tried it yet.
I use patches sewn on the inside when they wear, but it is a bit of a pain sewing it as it's a hard location for the sewing machine to reach. The stitching provides extra reinforcement too, and when sewn in matching thread it is not really visible.
Rolled out of bed, got no plans today
Pain in the head, ground my teeth away
Drink my coffee first, now I'm fairly caffeinated
Thinking of the worst, my thoughts R-rated
My meat-vessel
Is not a temple
My heart's a nightclub,
Full of cigarette butts
I quit smoking months ago, no nicotine
But the craving lives on, so addicting
I think that tailors are worse than rollies
Both are gross, neither are great or healthy
I'll still feel sad but the smoke makes it fun
I want the feeling of it in my lungs
I'll still feel bad and the smokes make it true
I want the feeling of one or a few
My meat-vessel
Is not a temple
My heart's a nightclub,
Full of cigarette butts
I finished my Lego lambo yesterday and discovered I put one of the diffs backwards. Now the front and rear wheels spin in different directions when you try to push it. Ah well, it's a display model and no one else will ever know.
I bought the Fast and the Furious Lego sets and they're just display models tbh. So in one way it's good that you don't actually have to use them for play. But like Calhoon said, it would be annoying just knowing that it's not perfect.
Anyone got breadmaker recs? His Lordship hath discovered if one decomissions an old appliance, one should do so after buying a motherfucking replacement honestly dipshit why did you do that???
Ahem.
We do a lot of pizza dough, some of it quite dense, so looking for one with the kind of paddle you uusually only see at Pride. Or with YAOI branded on it.
I would love a bread machine with a container that’s actually shaped like a bread loaf! All the ones I’ve seen have this weird tall thing so the bread loaf is not shaped right.
In a pinch you just breadmake to the second rise, then shape and plonk in a pan of your own delight and finish off in the oven. Bonus: you don't get paddle holes
Recently bought the Breville Bakers Dozen model. Haven't used it or the various options enough to give it a full rec, but so far so good. Although I agree with @[email protected] that I was expecting the tin to be more loaf-shaped than it is.
We're looking at brevilles since they seem to have avoided the Cheap Chinese Manufacturing of Suck that most reputation brands have long descended into, but there seems to be issues with the collapsible paddles. Bad idea all around
i have a kitchenaid but i just mix pizza dough by hand (1-2KG flour at a time) in a large cambro tub, just using the ken forkish's "flour water salt yeast" methods. if you autolyse the dough and use 70%+ hydration its pretty easy to do by hand.
Flying back to Melbourne today. Heard a lot of flights have been being cancelled out of Brisbane the last few days. I wouldn't mind that, but I've got to get back to my doggo.
Good luck. It was chaos at Melbourne yesterday trying to fly up to Brisbane (took me 1.5 hours just to drop my bag off), so hopefully that isn’t your experience flying home today.
I can't believe Twitter is also imploding, now where am I supposed to unapologetically fan girl and talk about reality tv without the prying eyes of people I know IRL???
They've limited the amount of tweets you can view, it's 600 for those that don't pay and 6000 for those that do. You also can't send a tweet if you've reached your limit. They also stopped tweets from being able to be shared on outside sources. It's like they're trying to kill twitter.
i didn't even bother trying the official app again. tried it ages ago and it was awful. i can imagine the current version is even more optimised to jam its ad-riddled revenue cock in my butthole.
I have a few issues occasionally with jerboa but it's in its infancy and I can be understanding about its teething problems. With the official Reddit app however there are no excuses for having such a subpar performance for so long.
Maybe Mr Smeg needs to drive me somewhere with tasty food. We had loaded potato gems last Sunday at Hey Sister.
Not sure what I want today. For now just listening to Blue Juice Radio on PBS. Easily one of the best shows of the week after Stardust, Afterglow, and Riddim Yard.
I’d love some gado gado too, please chef. And I’d better pick up something with prawns for the OH while I’m here, so I’ll have whatever you recommend, thanks
Fish & chips for me. Usually Miller St is jumping at this hour with people getting pizza or f&c. Tonight was dead. Zillions of empty car parks and the f&c shop people were filing their nails and scrolling on their phones. The cost of living is starting to bite down hard I think. Mind you, $18 for 1 piece of fish, 1 scallop, 1 prawn, 1 fishcake and a handful of chips is getting a bit steep for regular purchase.
I used to looove fish n chips but it's getting pricey for me and my family of four/five (we live with my MIL and sometimes she eats with us). It cost $110 last time I got it.
Put chips and whatever else is left over in a colander and rinse them under the tap, toss so that they get evenly wet. Then give a good shake to get rid of loose water. Optionally spray lightly with oil.
spread on a tray in a single layer. Put the tray in the preheated oven for 10 minutes. The water dries off and makes everything crisp and crunchy.
This has totally changed the nature of leftover f’n’c. Arguably better as leftovers.
I've heard it a lot in the coming years. But when I was in highschool me and my mates called them lads. Eshay feels like a Sydney name. But, to be fair, the friend who kind of spearheaded the whole "lads" thing was born in England (though he's live in Australia for like his entire life).
Urgh, you know that feeling when you wake up at a "normal" time, scroll on your phone and then doze off only to bolt awake and it's 11:15... now I'm sitting here with my coffee and I almost regret how cold it is out here. Thankfully my lunch appt has been postponed by half an hour as well. I should at least do one Useful thing today. Mainly clean the kitchen which looks like a disaster zone. I would be bereft without my dishwasher.
Well we managed about 1.5 hours at the party last night until baby became so hysterical with the grandparents that we had to leave. But honestly I’m okay with that, not that the party was bad but I certainly remembered why we decided we were happy to have a baby and give up the nights out. I really prefer doing stuff like lunches now. Also barely drank and still woke up with a ripper headache. Truly think I’m in the era of dinner parties and picnics now.
All this cold made me start reminiscing about the last roadtrip to Mildura, and out of curiosity I checked the weather there - how is it 2° colder there?????
Desert. Drier air. No cloud blankie to keep us all warm(er). Also an unusual burst of cold air & rain in progress across the entire middle of this continent rn.
I've been trying random fauxmeat options when I see them on special and I have to say, way to many go for texture and presentation over taste. I got some faux chicken tenders and while they look, smell, and sort feel the part, they absolutely don't taste it.
If I know someone who is hoarding lots of plastic bottles in the belief they will make money when the container deposit scheme comes in, am I a bad person if I don't tell them containers will need to have a specially printed barcode on them to be eligible?
That's a tough one. Not really. Don't step on someone's hobby. Plead ignorance. In fact help them out by dumping I mean donating some of yours. (If they're sharing their bed with the plastic then maybe it's time to step in).
Yeah, that won’t work. Even cans now isn’t worth the effort. We kept about 6 months worth, had the yard looking like hell, and were told not to bother conning back without triple the amount.
It will be worthwhile for personal quantities if you have a reverse vending machine or return point somewhere you regularly go, but it would not be worth the logistics of collecting and transporting large amounts of other people's discards. And without the label showing the 10c deposit was paid (which won't be there until the scheme is actually introduced) you can't get it refunded, so the old bottles are worth nothing.
Had a great day today. Went go kart racing with my partner as she had a gift card. It was drizzling so it made the racing way more fun and I did manage to beat her (9th vs 11th). Then we tried out a pile of recliner couches and decided on this one and ordered it:
The soup I made for diner was very yum. Small dices of onion, carrot, celery, zucchini and corn kernels, fry with generous amount of middle eastern spice mix, bottle of passatta, can of beans and stock. Cook until veg are perfect tenderness and consume with garlic bread. It’s the small dices that make it nice to eat.
Oh dear, a mate in total crisis who lives in Europe is not nice to see. I'm glad they made it through the night is all I'm willing to share. I've become one of those people saying no matter how shit something seems, drinking will only make it seem worse tomorrow.
Still it's been a good day. My skin is nice and soft. I didn't quite get the walk in. The cats got a good workout chasing toys though and I can still do some bodyweight stuff tonight. The mindfullness movement workshop was great, I got complete mental silence a few times as we did the movements which uplifted me no end. I left feeling pretty euphoric, the gender kind. Any trans and gender diverse people here, if you haven't gone to any of Transgender Victoria's free workshops and such, do think about gettting along. It's freaking beautiful to be among a tribe who are strangers, but instantly see you. They promote them on their insta.
I had two satisfying naps today. I'm legit turning into a cat lady. The crazy part is sure to come along again at some point but not today.
I finally got enough FlyBuys points to get another Bunnings gift card. That last 27c seemed to take an awfully long time. Once it arrives I can get more manure and mulch for the garden.
ASHES UPDATE: (because I know you're all closeted lovers of the ol' bat n' ball): Second test at Lord's (the home of cricket) Second innings. Australia has already batted. England to chase 371. Currently England 4/114.
We've had a few injuries. Pat Cummins copped a shiner to the eye. Nathan Lyon strained a calf doing some sort of gymnastics on the field. It's OK, we're Aussies we get back up and keep fighting.
It's going to be an exciting match tonight folks. I will be watching and anticipating Midnight (blue) bot's second coming. Oh oh oh oh.
Housemate and I are on season 8 of our Game of Thrones rewatch, and so far every ep has just been an hour of us slinging jokes back and forth about the quality. Have to say on this rewatch I've definitely noticed the quality got worse around season 6/7, maybe I'll pull out the books for a reread.
Thinking about the movie I watched yesterday, The Field. ok. It's about the tragic consequences incurred by a person who values possessions and their rights more than they value people .
A little bit of daggy excite for the evening. Going off to see Indiana Jones. Hehe.
This weekend has been interesting with the weather to say the least. I did check out the small but fun Fantastic Beasts exhibit. Was hoping also to squeeze a REB tour, but that is booked out till almost mid-August at this stage. Got some goodies from Uniqlo and was lucky to discover the bottom of the bag was torn walking back. Managed not to lose anything.
Again, you know your Llab ain't a Monday person... It has once again come far too quickly!
Pretty low key weekend for me. Went to a farmers market on Saturday and ate too much brie and Camembert but I regret nothing! Today I tackled Mount Washmore and made a quick trip out for essentials, and metaphorically ate popcorn whilst the whole Twitter/Reddit thing imploded. And watched wrestling with my boy.
I miss sitcoms. The kind that are full of corny jokes and have 20 episodes a season. Seems that era of tv is dead, and it’s sad. Shows like Frasier, Seinfeld, Freinds, Big Bang theory etc. I guess with streaming being the main form of tv now it’s a different market.
I agree with you, I think the market has become so saturated with content that producers are either going with cringe reality shows, or period/crime drama for ratings, with not much in between.
I grew up in 70/80s UK and we had the likes of The Good Life, Fawlty Towers, Are You Being Served, Hi-de-Hi and countless others sitcoms. Sure, some of the content from those years wouldn't pass the respect test these days, but they were part of life at the time.
Venting/whinging post warning: Mr Peeler ruined my favourite shot glasses. They were Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec inspired moulin rouge glasses I bought at the monet and friends exhibition at The Lume. I said repeatedly Don't put them in the dishwasher. I even rescued them a few times when he was about to start a cycle and told him again. And what does he do.. the design is all melted and ruined. Aargh! Dammit! End of rant.
He should, but I don't think he can as I don't think they sell them anymore and he's on jobseeker. Oh well, I guess they're only glasses. Other people have got much bigger problems and here I am whining about glasses!
Mmm warm bed. Pretty nails. But it's cold out there. Pretty nails. I can't be bothered getting dressed. Pretty nails. Maybe I can get a coffee while I'm out. Pretty nails. My nails would look really good wrapped around a coffee. Pretty nails. Ok I've got this. Pretty nails.
Working perfectly, and not at all involving anyone logging in under that account to manually create a post. Don't pay any attention to the Raven behind the curtain....
Tried a new type of noodle for lunch today - basically 2 minute noodles, but protein enriched (ie they added pea flour). I was uncertain about them because I'm not a fan of most pea/legume products, but they were pretty decent. It turns them in to 5 minute noodles though.
Noodley goodness
Image: a delicious bowl of protein-enriched noodles, served in an Asian-styled chicken broth and enhanced with roast chicken shreds, mixed colour capsicum dice, green onion rings and sliced button mushrooms
Bot fell asleep. The new thread overnight somehow managed to get created labled as indonesian, so was invisible for most people. The bot was woken up and instructed to create a new post manually, and has further training scheduled today.
As a positive, breakfast has been including some lovely indonesian options this morning.
A couple of weeks ago I added someone from a dating app on Instagram (at their suggestion) and the chat has been on and off, I'm considering biting the bullet just suggesting we go for coffee this week. Thoughts?
No beef to go with my daikon tonight so had to change plans. This time I used the mini chopper to scramble the tofu for my garlic chilli noodles which was a lot easier. Looking forward to it. Might chuck some mini spring rolls in the airfryer for an entree.