I say I'm gay a lot for someone who is technically asexual
this but straight instead of gay, i don't care about gender but man there aren't a lot of cute guys around here, they're all either masculine or they're douchebros who think logan paul isn't a despicable asshat..
where tf are the twinks?
I'm a bisexual gen-x man. For my entire single life I was told that I was just gay and "hadn't come to terms" with it. Even after marrying a woman, my wife still got shit about how one day I'd realize I am gay and leave.
I never understood the need to label or pigeonhole everything. Maybe we, all of us, are just people who love. Who we love should be nobody's business.
my sexuality is "i want to bang sexy people"
My interpretation of the meme here is that the cat uses gay as an umbrella term similar to queer a lot. I'm sorry about all the shitty biphobia you've gone through, though :(
I'm an xennial demi woman and we didn't even have the term "demisexual" when you and I were young. Trying to explain to my bigoted mother that I'm not attracted to a meat suit, and can't define what I'm attracted to, while having a girlfriend was... awful!
yeah, straight and gay are such restrictive concepts, i have trouble imagining that anyone actually fits them for any other reason than social pressure.
especially with gender liberation and people looking however they want, gender based atraction is such a weird concept...
Here's the wildest part, I prefer women.
I think it's just because my last long-time partner was a man, so a lot of my current friend-group has only ever known me in a homosexual relationship. Also, a lot of my friends are gay, so it's easier to be "one of the gays." Gonna be real weird to be called gay when I'm in a technically het relationship.
I don't know if you've experienced this (or are this age) but my kids are gen-Z, and they use 'gay' and 'queer' (mostly) interchangeably. One of my kids who is gay constantly refers to me as 'gay' because I'm bi. One of their friends who is a lesbian also uses gay, so it's been quite a learning experience for me.
Yeah, my friendgroup does the same. It doesn't really bother me that much, just very silly to think about. I'd rather be included in the LGBT community than excluded, even if bi-erasure is a pretty serious issue. I used to really care about the meaning of words, but now that we live in a post-meaning world, I mostly just care about the intent. Nobody ever means me ill will when they refer to me as gay, so it's w/e.
Is the milkshake saying this?
the author accidentally flipped the speech bubble
this is what it is supposed to look like
When you drink a whole bi milkshake, it becomes a bye milkshake.
I do this constantly, probably due to gay still being used as an umbrella term for anything queer
It's too good a word.
Stop calling me out OP
^^^ Bisexual cat
heuristically? why not? (maybe this one here does it also)
Seems like splitting hairs, I get it.
Looks like a cat-sexual to me.
