As I get older I realize how much shittier of a world we are leaving for our kids. I’m 52 and much more cognizant of my more liberal views and how much more “correct” they are now than I was was in my early 20s. My age and wisdom have taught me this.
The entire premise of conservatism is that the way things are now (or how they recently were), and the projection of this into the future, is the best possible way for things to be. How absolutely stupid do you have to be to believe that?
"Let's just stop here, things are as good as they're going to get. No improvements can be made."
This is the truth. I didn't have the education to articulate how I could tell that the world was fucked up when I was eighteen. Now I do, and I'm fucking furious at how dumb, hurtful, and hateful this world is. It doesn't have to be this way and never did.
I thought there might be some truth to it as a kid. As a 40-something, I realize it was just selfish dicks trying to rationalize their own shitty "fuck you, I got mine" worldview as maturity somehow.
Hey now, as an older than 40 who has never been reasonably able to afford rent, don't forget us olds.
Honestly, same shit was happening to Gen X, which is why everyone was so aloof and "over it," just more of them managed to be brainwashed than millennials and Gen Z. It was a lot harder to fight against the indoctrination when literally every stupid fuck around you would parrot this shit until their deathbed, and their generation massively outnumbered yours.
Now Gen Z and millennials are more populous, and the script has indeed been flipped.
Bit over 40 here stressing about my next place to live. It's getting so expensive. When I started thus latest job I was a bit desperate due ro a year without work, and I basically asked for pay that would allow me to afford a single room apartment at the time. I've had raises since, and it still feels like I can barely afford the same thing. One of my uncles thinks my opinion doesn't matter because I don't own a home, so I'm "unsuccessful", and we should listen to successful home owners like them.
I think a lot of it shook out of the hippie movement, where some people were just self serving narcissists that wanted to do drugs, have sex, and didn't want fight in a war. Then when they got families and jobs they didn't want government "stealing" their money to help other people, and so they "became" conservatives.
So they just assume narcissistic motivation applies to everyone.
I'll never forget the reason one boomer told me. They used to be a "leftist" hippy, but is now your typical conservative sucker. When I asked what happened to cause that change, I got the answer, "Just stopped caring about others." That's exaxtly the attitude you're describing.
Yeah, when boomers were getting into their thirties, the free-loving sixties were being replaced by the threat of AIDs and nuclear war. I guess I can get why those things might make people "conservative". Not that that word means what it meant then anymore.
The sad thing is, in the US at least, we really need the conservatives to do actual conservative things. There is a definite benefit to looking at government action with a critical viewpoint, and saying "Should we be paying for this? Should it cost this much? Should we even be allowed to do this?" Unfortunately, they've abandoned that important role in favor of deepthroating corporations, peddling FSB propaganda, and forcing their version of the bible on everyone.
As others have pointed out, the likely cause is that politics doesn't change with age, it changes with one's investment in the status quo. The most likely reason that this effect is breaking down is because most people born after Reagan's presidency were never given any means to become invested in this system. If you've got no assets and lots of debt, fearmongering that immigrants are coming to take your job or wealth doesn't work.
That's even dumber. You're paying taxes either way, the difference is what you're paying for with them. I'd rather them go towards healthcare than corporate bailouts and military contractors.
For that to work tough enough people have to be better off than their folks. Boomers hoarded the power and money, and now they try to cheat to keep it as the next two generations remain more liberal than expected with age.
I started voting conservative at 18, because my parents did and I didn't know who to vote for (we have compulsory voting in my country). Swapped to the other side late 20s and now mid 30s I can't see it changing anytime soon.