I didn't really have anything against Drag (I am used to extremely eccentric therians) until they started pretending to also be another person who talks exactly the same way, making it incredibly obvious they are an alt and a troll. You seriously think anyone believes that you, Bot, are a totally different user? C'mon man.
It couldn't be any less obvious lmao
Copied from what bot said here:
Bot is not drag. Bot understands why you may think that, but bot is just a friend of drag. Bot doesnโt use Lemmy for a long list of reasons, so Bot only uses Lemmy when drag gets extra upset about something on Lemmy because bot cares about drag :[
Bot is willing to provide proof that bot is not drag, so long as such proof does not dox either of us
I'd also add that posts like this are not how a person effectively supports their friend through Internet drama. Actually, it's extremely counterproductive. Rather, this is how someone addicted to the drama behaves.
Dr. Wesker thinks it's pretty cringe to refer to one's self in third person. Dr. Wesker thinks it should be reserved for house elves and Jimmy.
Bot has killed the part of botself that cringes, rather than the part of botself that is cringey. Bot likes having whimsy in bot's heart
That's okay. It does however appear to be a recurring theme that people find it abrasive and obnoxious. Well, judging from the drama history.
If the apology was to Ada, and the wrongdoing concerned Ada, the person with the final say over whether the apology is valid is Ada. It is not anyone else's place to disapprove or pile up criticism against it.
Disagree. The only person who can determine whether or not an apology is valid is the one making it because only they know whether or not they mean it
Yeah, but I mean it's up to Ada whether it suffices. It's damage done towards her that Drag is trying to counterweight.
The thread about dragonfucker getting banned has been honestly very uncomfortable for me to go through. I don't know or particularly care about this user, nor do I know what drama drag's involved in, or how much of that is drag's fault. But I have read a significant amount of inexcusably transphobic assertions from a large number of users, many of them accusing drag of being a troll or even a disgrace to the transgender community for the unspeakably vile sin of having a neopronoun.
Like, I'm not attempting to defend drag here. People are saying that drag was probably banned for more reasons beyond screenshotting DMs, but when reading into the thread it seems to me that the only thing that everyone hates about drag is... that drag has a non-normative gender identity? And that's somehow making a joke of the transgender community? I mean, fill me in if you feel like it, but no amount of trolling or crimes drag has commited justifies the amount of ridiculing that this person has received on the basis of drag's gender identity on that thread. It does seem to me, as an external observer, that a large amount of users were eagerly awaiting for drag to have a less than ideal behavior for everyone to be immensely mean to drag and to claim "See? I always knew drag was just a troll! No one can possibly have a gender identity this far from what I'm comfortable tolerating!".
It's making me feel bad on baseline empathy alone, and neopronouns or non-binary genders aren't really an emotionally charged topic for me. I'm cis male, lol. But seeing the unimaginably hostile reaction many have had towards this user on the basis of drag's quirky pronoun, which literally does not hurt anybody, has made me very uncomfortable.
I have already been feeling uncomfortable on Lemmy, in general, because of this insane obsession users from certain instances have with tankies, and the disingenuity anything politics is treated because of that (and politics being such a prevalent topic on Lemmy is certainly not helping!). I don't like how, for example, I have seen orders of magnitude more people shitting on Hexbear trolls than actual Hexbear users trolling back when it was online. But Hexbear trolls, or tankies, or whatever, are an abstract group, that is not contingent on some intimately held aspect of yourself. This drama however is targeting a specific user, a single person, who belongs in an already excluded demography, and is probably still figuring things out about dragself. It's a whole new level of fucked up.
My mutuals from other sites, some of whom are leftists, and some of whom are trans, are wary of moving into the Fediverse and particularly Lemmy because of stuff like this. I have argued in favor of the Fediverse in the past because I'm a bit of a FOSS nut, but this I cannot defend against.
Anyway sorry for the rambling lol. The other thread made me feel bad enough on a gut level that I had to let it out. Also, for what it's worth, I have seen enough people with non-normative gender identities to trust that OP is not, in fact, a drag alt. Not that this being the case would change much about the recalcitrant transphobia.
Have you really never seen hexbears do the pig shit spam?
Yeah, I have, and it's honestly disgusting. But for every pig shit emoji I have seen, I have also seen hundreds of comments shitting on tankies, dunking on commenters for expressing "radical leftist opinions" that are not that radical outside of social media, shitting on the work of the Lemmy devs for being professed marxist-lenninists, or claiming that Lemmy.ml is somehow cancer on the network that needs getting rid of, because it's nominally a tankie instance despite the sheer amount of democrat shilling, Israel apologia and NATO bootlicking you can see here.
It's a matter of scale. I will concede that I simpatize with the more leftist parts of the political spectrum, both marxists and anarchists, but I feel like at this point I would be grossed out at Lemmy even if I was 100% a liberal. Political disagreements are fine I guess, but the way they permeate the culture on Lemmy is weird, obsessive and unhealthy, and most importantly, it comes from a very small number of instances. And it's not the tankie ones.
Also, for what it's worth, I have seen enough people with non-normative gender identities to trust that OP is not, in fact, a drag alt.
This is fake news. Nonbinary people don't exist, which means everyone who claims to be nonbinary must be the same troll. Plus, Newbuild says bot's drag's friend, and that's obviously a lie, because everyone knows queer people have no friends!
Biiiiiiig /s
I'd like to interject for a moment. What you're doing is downvoting a comment, in which someone seems to do the right thing for once. I'd say upvotes are in order. Disregarding any previous history.
Plus, can we please have some different drama tomorrow? I think it's a bit boring to always talk about the same person over and over again as if there wasn't any other lore or drama to be had on the Fediverse.
seriously why post this when there wasn't even a response by Ada? And why do those two screenshots not align, whats the meaning behind the second screenshot?
What game are you trying to run here, Drag?
edit: oh that first reply in the second screenshot was in reply to me...
since the text is too small to be readable, nobody can tell; but in any case, privacy matters regardless of the classification. If drag cared they couldโve asked Ada beforehand if it would be okay.
But I guess courtesy is a one-way to drag.
Well too bad I have Drag blocked as I can't risk to go into rant mode again.
Why post this when there wasn't even a response by Ada?
Because Ada is on BZ, D is instance banned by BZ, no one from BZ sees any of D's comments anywhere in the Fed.
Newbuild is, in my opinion, an alt of D's. D realising that Ada can't see their repeated apologies is absolutely the reason why this was made.What game are you running
I think maybe they realised they have pissed everyone off, and have lost their fav trolling grounds.
blocked Drag ~ rant mode
Yeah, I feel that, it seems like near universal reaction to D.
What's the link
