I looked at the comments on a few of your posts, and people are telling you exactly why they are annoyed by them.
Your posts come off as low effort spam, almost like you're treating Lemmy communities like a Discord chat room. Also, you post very similar kinds of things about the same couple of games on the daily, and people probably get tired of seeing samey stuff in their feed.
I've noticed that you're making hyper specific posts ("what do you think about X mission in rdr") in a general gaming community. Try posting those hyper specific questions in the communities for the actual game you're asking about, where people who want to nerd out about some random mission are more likely to be.
It's cool that you're trying to engage people though, I think you just need to get some more practice at reading the crowd here. Lurk more, maybe. Lemmy isn't the other site, we don't necessarily resonate with all the same kinds of content here.
I guess if there's no existing community, that's an issue. Create one, then. Post the hyper-specific question into that new community, and then go post an announcement of the community in the broader games communities and let people interested naturally filter in.
I'm not a Lemmy expert by any means, I'm just suggesting ways to engage with people that seems to me like it'd be more constructive and likely to be appreciated. π€·
Half your posts are specific questions to a specific game which could be answered by searching Google. Such posts do not promote open discussion.
And you might need to check your spelling a bit.
If you had a post like 'I really love Red Dead Redemption 2 (note spelling is correct here) for (insert mission here)', other Lemmy users might chime in with their own favourites.
So you need to curate your posts a bit. Maybe stick to commenting for the time being.
I don't think it's fair to OP to criticize their spelling. English may not be their first language. Even if it was, we shouldn't penalize people for making innocent mistakes.
I understand your concern. I wouldn't be criticising their spelling in the main body of the post, but at the very least they should be spell checking the title. An occasional typo is usually forgiving but if the Lemmy feed is showing a post with many spelling mistakes it's not going to go down well.
Learning spelling and ensuring it is correct is part of learning a language.
If I was posting in a Chinese forum, I would be very careful to ensure the Chinese characters are correct. Differences in minor radicals can make all the difference, e.g. ζ ’ and ζΌ« are distinctively different words. It's a different kind of spell checking.
Right. If and when I post in French or Spanish or Gaelic on a sub that is more than a language practice, though - in consideration of the reader - I'll have my stuff checked. It'll be by an AI, so there's the hallucination risk, but at least I'll have it checked. Even grammarly is a train wreck for non-american English, but it's good for catching the really bad mistakes in English and maybe others.
I don't see where someone's criticizing for writing in a second language. I see where someone is expressing worry about content posted without getting it checked. Do we not want our questions to be read? Do we not want to make it as easy to get an answer as possible?
Remember when we used to see this?
Search first, ask later. On most forums, there are certain questions that come up again and again. ...
Choose wisely. There are many, many forums out there. ...
Breathe. ...
Write like you made it through grade school. ...
Be complete, but concise. ...
6.Proofread, then proofread again. ...
If these posts are made in a relatively short time then it could appear as spam. I browsing New is my default and, on a couple of occasions, I have blocked a user simply for being too active and flooding my feed.
Put a bit more effort in your posts. It's nice that you're actually posting and asking questions to engage the community. I just think you need to work on making your posts not seem low effort. For example, in your post about a game you like or comparing games try writing some talking points that would engage people. Opinions you have. Lists of things you like and dislike. Things like that.
When you just have a bunch of low effort posts it makes it look like you're some kind of online troll building a presence to make you seem more authentic.
Splitting the discussion: having the same topic in three or four different places means there's going to be three or four different discussions, we would benefit from having a single discussion where everybody got to participate. Lemmy is small enough that everyone can see everything by browsing all. You don't need to post the same topic into a bunch of different places