Kindness
I agree ; -)
Intelligence
I so feel this. Whenever someone has a smart niche, whether it's just reading a lot or being skilled at something like maths, they become sooo much more attractive to me
Curiosity for things
Yep, even if someone doesn't know something it's perfect if they're open to learning more :)
They don't have to be interested in every topic, it's the openness that goes a long way
Passion for something. It′s such a turnoff when you are talking to somebody and they aren't interested in anything.
Current events? Meh. Books? Meh. Films/Shows? Meh.
I don't care if it's stamp collecting or chewing gum flavors or the history of wallpaper design, just be passionate or interested in something. At least we can converse for while on that topic.
Sense of humor
I married my wife because she was the first person to teach me to laugh at myself.
First thing I thought of.
To borrow the new age term, an old soul.
There are just people who possess a sort of cynically detached understanding of the world and people. They aren't fired by largely pointless passion or desire, they're intelligent and perceptive enough to generally understand things and emotionally mature enough to generally accept them and they have a way of just sort of gliding through life, maintaining a relatively even keel instead of getting distracted and disconcerted by irrelevancies.
Every single person I've ever known who was like that has been or is special to me.
I love your way of describing it, more than anything else!
General open-mindedness/respect/mindfullness.
Yes mindfulness. Self awareness.
Confidence
Having an interest in sharing something with you without making you feel stupid about it.
Went to about art museum with a guy, and he was super excited to tell me about certain pieces and artists and their history. He was very kind when I asked questions about things that were probably very obvious to a more studious person.
Was on his arm by the end of the date. Absolutely smitten!
Is his other arm available?
We broke up eventually and haven't talked in years, unfortunately. So... maybe!
Can make smart and educated jokes. Will laugh at fart jokes.
Empathy and I can't find a single word to describe it but being able to understand and recognize other sides of opinions or arguments/debates, respectfully of course
Someone who doesn't impose their will, beliefs, or anything else on another person.
My ex wife worked very hard at changing me, until I barely recognised who I was. My now wife let me be myself again, and I will forever lover her for that.
Emotional Maturity + sincerity + charisma is a winning combo
Being nice and kind to everyone most of the time. Being positive.
Wit for men. There's nothing sexier than making a woman laugh. Sheer intelligence for women. Once I had an erection listening to my ex gf reasoning.
The most attractive quality a person can have is being into me.
Intelligence, and a shared interest. It's almost impossible for me to care about someone who doesn't even know how to use their own devices.
Doesn't beat me or slap my nuts with a spatula
Independence
A good personality.
Its the single most important characteristic someone needs to have.
I like to imagine the people downvoting this are vapid, miserable assholes who are angry because every relationship they've ever had has failed, in flames, because their now ex partners told them they have awful personalities.
I like people who demonstrate the capability to think independently and come up with original ideas. The opposite of this are people with whom I only need to hear your stance on few subjects after which I know what you think about everything else too. If you agree with your friends about most things you're probably not very interesting person. Same applies if you disagree about most things too.
The way of using their voice
Ah yes, I too value the mastery of the Thu'um in my partner.
Consent 😎
Ok!
oh fk 🥵
Moxy
Uh, you misspelled Moxie. Only the best soda by a mile.
Def curisity and a desire to learn/improve in basically any way.
Smile
His name
I've been witnessing many of my comments get downvoted into oblivion for reasons I cannot explain, and now I'm starting to think people are doing it for some self-reason like getting their comments to the top, because this seems like a pretty neutral, straightforward, and honest answer to a question.
A good heart, and high intelligence. Also I'm religious, so faith is #1 factor for me.
you can only pick two
