Is the number of users in all of Lemmy tiny compared to the number of users in Reddit?

yes but I would also argue that it's a nice benefit as of right now. it gives a more of a community feeling and less of a World Wide Web feeling

The large subreddits each have more users than all of Lemmy. So yes.

However, like others have said, who cares? Community and quality of discussion is more important than raw user count. Here, what you post is actually seen by people, even if the thread is days old.

Lemmy (also mastodon, in effect fediverse) is about quality and interaction, rather than consumption. So userbase being “tiny” is a feature. Here, your posts aren’t buried under karma farming accounts, your comments actually lead to discussions and get replies.

I’ve switched to RSS feeds for my consumption habbits

I agree. Lemmy today feels like reddit 15 years ago.
I’ve switched to RSS feeds for my consumption habbits

are you using an app to do this?
- No OC, but i "read you" on fdroid. Imo its the best option I've found for mobile.
  
  On desktop there are a lot of options but i dont have a sigular recomendation.
- I use NetNewsWire on iOS
rss feeds

Can u elaborate how you are using it
- I follow blogs, gaming news and various other websites via RSS, and check my RSS reader couple times a day for new articles. Whenever they publish a new article, reader fetches it and there’s always something to read
Well said, the emphasis here seems to be more about the content rather than the amount of upvotes you can get. But as this community grows so will exploiters as well. Time will tell I guess, but I really enjoy this platform more than any other.
There are plenty of pointless posts and comments here daily, but let’s hope for a quality future

yes

Reddit seems to be about 1000x bigger.

It should be noted that social media companies like reddit, facebook, twitter, etc all have major incentives to inflate their user counts (with bots, or counting inactive users). Those user counts are the product that they're selling to advertisers to set up on their platform.

We don't have that incentive, in fact its the opposite, we'd rather have less users that are more active, as more users require more moderation resources and time.
- That is a valid point. If we take those numbers with a hefty heap of salt, Reddit would still be 10x or 100x bigger than Lemmy.
Atleast we are growing steadily. Never heard of misskey tho
- Yup, and Reddit started in 2005 (which is 2 decades ago now) with its large migration in 2010. Lemmy only really got going in 2023, and it's growing
  
  Misskey is a Mastodon style platform, that is popular in Japan and existed from a while back. They added activitypub support in 2018
  
  https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misskey
- Misskey is like "the default" fediverse software for Japanese and (Asian) ACG (Animation-comic-games) communities.
  
  This side of fediverse is relatively big, but almost their community rarely reach out Western fediverse mostly due to language and law-related stuff. They have unique photography, online comic market, and and various creative centric community that rarely found on mainstream Western fediverse.
  
  In fact, before Mastodon.social, the biggest fediverse instance is Japanese -- Pawoo.net. At that time, it was managed by Pixiv (Japanese equivalent of DeviantArt), but later sold to random corpo, the moderation collapse, and now abandoned by its community.

yup but its a good size from my experience when engaging with it overall. if we get larger we will definately need more niche things.

if we get larger we will definately need more niche things.

I can’t even count how many times I watched niche subreddits get ruined by the tyranny of the masses. As a niche thing becomes more popular, you get more casual lurkers. And those casual lurkers don’t typically have a strong knowledge on the subject. So they’ll start to upvote things that sound plausible and are eloquently written to make the reader feel smart for understanding it. But that doesn’t mean the info is accurate or correct; It just means the info appealed to the masses.

I work in a niche field of professional audio. The audiophile world has a lot of snake oil. Lots of people paying $2000 for solid gold cables when a wire coat hanger would sound exactly the same. I have seen “help, I have a buzz in my speaker and can’t figure out where it’s coming from” posts, where the top comment is suggesting a $7000 complete system rebuild… When all the OP needs is a 50¢ ferrite bead wrapped around one of their cables. But the “rebuild your system” comment was well written and sounded plausible to someone who only has surface-level knowledge, while the “ferrite bead” answer requires more in-depth knowledge on how interference is picked up in the first place. So the “rebuild your system” comment got pushed to the top.

Basically, nobody likes feeling dumb. And if a niche community gets popular, the laypeople begin to outnumber the experts. If a question has an answer that requires more than surface-level layperson knowledge, it will often get buried in downvotes from the laypeople. Not because it was incorrect, but because it made casual readers feel dumb. Even if the experts know better, they’re simply outnumbered.

Yeah but don't worry; Reddit will do something stupid again soon so more users will leave for places like Lemmy until that place is pure AI hell

Yes. Go up to someone on the street and ask what Lemmy is.

That's fine, though, we're not going anywhere, and we can only grow.

it can easily shrink
- How? Something else would have to pull community members away from the fediverse. I don't know what that would be right now.
  
  Meanwhile, non-federated platforms will enshittify, be bought out by a crazy billionare who wants to ruin everything, or (like has happened with other, older monopolies) be broken up during a dynastic feud. I see some strong parallels to how Linux has outgrown proprietary alternatives over the decades, and arguably it's even harder for an OS.
- That hasn't been the trend though.