I have 3 kids and no money. Why can’t I have no kids and 3 money? - Sir Homer Simpson
Friends: buying houses and having kids.
Me: let's get a motorcycle license babe.
Tbh we started off with her going: "i want a tiny you, someday" to eventually: "i can't stand kids, no thanks" (we visited her sister abroad for a week and her kids totally drained us) and now we're back to: "i kinda want a baby as it's now or never" while i completely embraced the idea of never having kids once she asked me to get a vasectomy (i didn't as i didn't feel it was neccesary).
I'd rather just make more money and have more fun. I never fit in well so i doubt my kids will too, i don't want that for them. Heck i also don't want the current state of society for them, i don't even want that for me.
Having kids will not help your happiness level..
It absolutely can help, but it also depends on the individual and everything else going on in your life.
Source: Parent of 3; two in college, one in high school.
Not really. Judge for yourself, and follow the legit studies. If you’re already happy, in a good relationship, and in a country (not the US) that heavily supports parenthood, and you’re the father, then at least you might break even.
(tl:dr) “Parents will always be quick to proclaim the gifts and blessings their children provide, but a more detached appraisal calls into question this conventional wisdom.”
https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-having-children-make-people-happier-in-the-long-run
I'm not gonna have kids so they can start competing with me for crying time. That's a limited resource, and I need all of it.
You thinking those friends married and with kids are not depressed?
Source: was married with kids and depressed for years.
Living your best life!
No seriously though. Do what makes you happy because it's your life. Everybody dies at the end.
Woah, spoilers dude!
Nothing makes me happy, though!
Gaslight yourself into it
Guess what, you can do all three! It's a simple matter of holding the phone in one hand while whipping a tit for your baby in the other!
Appreciate u for it
