Acceptance doesn't mean that you need to settle for who you are.
Often, hardest choices to make, aren’t choices at all..
False dichotomy. You can be amazing and happy and content....and still want to improve yourself.
For me it takes on a slightly different tint. God I'm a wanker (wish to change), but I'm also a lazy shit and won't change (acceptance).
Do you wish you weren't a lazy shit?
You can't even make real improvements until you accept who you are. Trying to improve without accepting your current situation creates a self improvement debt that'll catch up to you and undermine your work.