We've been defederated. Were there that many trolls/assholes on our server? What on earth happened while I was asleep?
hey folks, we'll be quick and to the point with this one:
we have made the decision to defederate from lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works. we recognize this is hugely inconvenient for a wide variety of reasons, but we think this is a decision we need to take immediately. the remainder of the post details our thoughts and decision-making on why this is necessary.
we have been concerned with how sustainable the explosion of new users on Lemmy is--particularly with federation in mind--basically since it began. i have already related how difficult dealing with the explosion has been just constrained to this instance for us four Admins, and increasingly we're being confronted with external vectors we have to deal with that have further stressed our capabilities (elaborated on below).
an unfortunate reality we've also found is we just don't have the tools or the time here to parse out all the good from all the bad. all we have is a nuke and some pretty rudimentary mod powers that don't scale well. we have a list of improvements we'd like to see both on the moderation side of Lemmy and federation if at all possible--but we're unanimous in the belief that we can't wait on what we want to be developed here. separately, we want to do this now, while the band-aid can be ripped off with substantially less pain.
aside from/complementary to what's mentioned above, our reason for defederating, by and large, boils down to:
these two instances' open registration policy, which is extremely problematic for us given how federation works and how trivial it makes trolling, harassment, and other undesirable behavior;
the disproportionate number of moderator actions we take against users of these two instances, and the general amount of time we have to dedicate to bad actors on those two instances;
our need to preserve not only a moderated community but a vibe and general feeling this is actually a safe space for our users to participate in;
and the reality that fulfilling our ethos is simply not possible when we not only have to account for our own users but have to account for literally tens of thousands of new, completely unvetted users, some of whom explicitly see spaces like this as desirable to troll and disrupt and others of whom simply don't care about what our instance stands for
as Gaywallet puts it, in our discussion of whether to do this:
There's a lot of soft moderating that happens, where people step in to diffuse tense situations. But it's not just that, there's a vibe that comes along with it. Most people need a lot of trust and support to open up, and it's really hard to trust and support who's around you when there are bad actors. People shut themselves off in various ways when there's more hostility around them. They'll even shut themselves off when there's fake nice behavior around. There's a lot of nuance in modding a community like this and it's not just where we take moderator actions- sometimes people need to step in to diffuse, to negotiate, to help people grow. This only works when everyone is on the same page about our ethos and right now we can't even assess that for people who aren't from our instance, so we're walking a tightrope by trying to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. That isn't sustainable forever and especially not in the face of massive growth on such a short timeframe.
Explicitly safe spaces in real life typically aren't open to having strangers walk in off the street, even if they have a bouncer to throw problematic people out. A single negative interaction might require a lot of energy to undo.
and, to reiterate: we understand that a lot of people legitimately and fairly use these instances, and this is going to be painful while it's in effect. but we hope you can understand why we're doing this. our words, when we talk about building something better here, are not idle platitudes, and we are not out to build a space that grows at any cost. we want a better space, and we think this is necessary to do that right now. if you disagree we understand that, but we hope you can if nothing else come away with the understanding it was an informed decision.
this is also not a permanent judgement (or a moral one on the part of either community's owner, i should add--we just have differing interests here and that's fine). in the future as tools develop, cultures settle, attitudes and interest change, and the wave of newcomers settles down, we'll reassess whether we feel capable of refederating with these communities.
Hey everyone, woke up this morning with this news. This news really comes at a surprise as I have not seen or heard of any trolling coming from members of this community. I also have not been approached by their admins to see how we could collaborate. In either case, I'll be attempting to reach out to their admins and discuss a path forward together.
I'll post an update with the details in the coming days.
Their announcement doesn't strike me as all that alarming. I could be mistaken.
It sounds like their mods have watched an unexpected expressway arrive at their door this week, Douglas Adams-style, and so they're closing the door momentarily to evaluate what the new traffic will look like. Honestly feels reasonable, unless I'm misunderstanding it.
The message seems to be that this isn't meant to be a permanent change.
That's disappointing, I would've hoped that if open signups were their main problem then they would have communicated that. Other instances have "closed signups" but are effectively only bot gateways.
The more I read about beehaw, the more it seems like the admins are the kinds of people who would rather block everything they don't like than look for an actual solution.
I had to block a user from this instance who posted something along the lines of "would you hit it" of three women wearing Nazi armbands. That made me nervous of this instance. It looks like Beehaw is seeing more behavior like that from this instance.
Guys, can we please try to not act so butthurt about this? Simply accept that they were getting spammed and trolled and had to go private for awhile. It's nothing personally against us or our community.
This. We don't know what kind of content was happening. It's good that they're trying to cultivate their communities along what they believe to be a good and positive ethos, and it's even better that the Fediverse can support this without crippling everything.
Personally I'd rather there were methods for people to access content across instances without the instances having to federate. So that the repercussions of defederation can be minimized. Then it would not be a big deal at all even if an instance didn't federate with anyone else.
I feel that it's actually a big ask to expect the owners of an instance to host/proxy whatever content all other third party instances provide. If I was hosting my own instance I would actually rather prefer to not federate with anyone, because I would not want to be liable / responsible for hosting content that I don't even have control over. Specially if the fediverse ever becomes as big and mainstream as massive social networks like reddit.
I'm not sure why you doubt it. People have corroborated that slurs were being mass spammed. I myself witnessed a troll on lemmy.world yesterday who dropped an f-bomb and told a lascivious tale about dessalines. They can ban them for 5 minutes until they make another account and start spamming again. It's pretty easy for a handful of trolls to cause chaos, especially if they had only 4 mods. The mods need to sleep sometimes also.
Doesn't have to be organized when there's 30,000 people on the sites they're blocking. It can be a marginal percentage of users and still be hundreds of people they need to ban. Potentially repeatedly if the banned trolls just start using sockpuppets.
A small number of mods + dedicated bad actors = blocking the tools those bad actors use.
I find this very disappointing, not because I'm hugely attached to Beehaw (although their large gaming community has dominated my feed this week). But rather because the first response to whatever adversity they were facing, real or perceived, is to take the nuclear option. The biggest drawback to Lemmy as opposed to Reddit is the over fragmentation and the lack of quality content, so intentionally increasing those challenges feels short-sighted and bad for the ecosystem as a whole.
I would say that on lemmy mod tools are in pre-alpha state that work for instances under 1000 users. Lemmy needs more tools to moderate and without any other option beehaw decided to go nuclear until they get mod tools
Whole reddit debacle was about 3 party apps and moderation tools
Ok so help me understand here. The root post is Beehaw complaining that their four admins can't handle the new influx of users. But isn't that the entire point of moderators? Shouldn't each community be responsible for dealing with trolls, etc? From what I've seen of Beehaw, they're attempting to have the same handful of admins moderate every single community, which was never going to be sustainable and IMHO misses the entire point of this sort of experience.
I tend to agree. Their server, their rules, but an attempt to find a compromise of some variety rather than suddenly and unexpectedly defederating would have been nice.
Defederation is still nuclear and makes the whole service harder to approach. We need some intermediate tools besides "allow all" and "block all" for handling other instances.
Did that occur after sh.itjust.works was founded though? I joined pretty early and I thought we had been defederated from lemmygrad.ml since the beginning. The drama comes from all the people who got suddenly booted from communities they were subscribed to.
Yeah, this is different than blocking the tankie instance, but I still don't think that should have been done.
Shitjustworks and world are generalist instances while lemmygrad celebrates the slaughter of landlords, which even Mao accepted went too far in the end.
Their users posted the announcement that critisizing the CCP was allowed in world to accuse them of racism, homophobia, and the hatred of chinease people. No examples at first, just the origional post. Even their 'examples' were not congruent with that accusation. This ended with their suggesting the mods to be similarly bigoted.
There are plenty of examples where the users are imagining wild bigotry from people, attempting to get them banned even. They are, many of them, very violently against a conversation even when it's respectful from what I've seen outside their community
I still don't think they should have been banned though, but we have to recognize the difference. Scroll the local tab here and then try theirs. The difference is clear
I've really been seeing minimal to zero trolling and toxic arguments. Here, on beehaw, and on lemmy.world. Seems totally unnecessary to me. I don't think I personally vibe with their whole harping on the "safe space" aspect of their community. I want the internet, not a tiny, "safe", over-moderated community.
I agree with you, but we do not and should not have the capability of overriding what they and their userbase want to do. While I absolutely wish them the best of luck, I am not a Beehaw member for exactly the same reasons you aren't.
and should not have the capability of overriding what they and their userbase want to do.
I disagree, the whole point of Federation is to not fracture user-bases across platforms and if you don't like it, then don't join the Fediverse. Want a heavily moderated platform where for whiny b*tches where you must always agree? Make something that isn't federated (I won't mention the ones I know of because I don't want to support them, but plenty of platforms decided to do this). Federation is about connectedness, that means people are going to disagree. Defederating hurts users by doing the thing that federated services is supposed to prevent, causing fragmentation.
That's fine, but I wish that instances that have blocked your instance wouldn't appear on your timeline at all. Being able to see defederated content, but not knowing that you're talking to a brick wall if you interact with it, is very strange.
Maybe there should be a test to see if the other instance is responsive and if it isn't display a de-federated warning banner and maybe highlight the usernames from that instance in Red to show that they're not available from this current instance.
Its their communities choice I suppose. This seems against the idealogy of the fediverse, but to each their own. Folks can migrate here, or to a different instance of their choice if they disagree with the Beehaw admins.
I would disagree with that analogy, de-federation is a form of censorship because of the affects it has on registered users. It prevents users from accessing resources if they are on Beehaw. That analogy only works if Beehaw users could still interact with the de-federated communities but they are prevented from doing that.
Sure they can make a new account but the whole idea of Fediverse was to not have to make 20 accounts for different services, so if you signed up to Beehaw you are effectively censored and you'll need to make a new account.
So it very much is censorship, maybe not for us outside of Beehaw but certainly for the ones in Beehaw.
I think at this point we might as well start vetting new users if other instances are beginning to complain. It'll suck for new users but such is the price we might have to pay. As always, keep up the good work, loving this instance.
So what does that mean exactly in the context of Lemmy for Lemmy world any sh.it justworks and how is it different than someone who is part of a different instance?
Basically, our instances can no longer pull in posts from Beehaw, and Beehaw cannot pull from us. There is a wall between us.
If both a member of Beehaw and a member of lemmy.world are on a community on a third instance (like midwest.social), our comments and posts are invisible to eachother, like the other isn't there are invisible to Beehaw users, but we will still be able to see theirs (as we have not defederated them).
If both a member of Beehaw and a member of lemmy.world are on a community on a third instance (like midwest.social), our comments and posts are invisible to eachother, like the other isn't there
Is that really how it works? It's contrary to my understanding but I can't find that covered in the documentation.
I assumed that the discussion on a post on a 3rd party server would be served by the 3rd party and I would still see comments from beehaw users on that posts.
You're dealing with people that left reddit because the moderation wasn't strong enough. By default, "regular stuff" isn't filtered enough for them. So when you people come here with your regular stuff and they don't have the manpower to filter through it, they decided to shut the gates. For now.
To be honest, I'm glad we're on a platform where the default is "I don't want to hear that so I'll ignore you" instead of "I don't want to hear that so I'll try to silence you".
I bet the name sh.itjust.works attracts some users that are not serious about being good citizens of the fediverse. But I also bet that most of the users there are good ones. As always it just takes a minority of assholes to ruin something good.
Unfortunately this means those guys won. And they may move to another popular instance and keep on behaving like that.
It's a bit premature to be using the past tense lol. I'd wager many, many Lemmy accounts that were made in response to the blackout will just as quickly go inactive once reddit is back to business as usual.
As the beehaw announcement goes out of its way to make clear: the decision is not meant to be permanent, and will be reassessed as things settle. "Things" being a sudden rush of redditors who mostly didn't anticipate a Lemmy migration ahead of spez's AMA (which is the same window that the beehaw mods were given to prepare).
This hardly feels like gossip, much less drama. This feels like four mods pausing to see what's what as the next few days/weeks go by.
This comment made me think earlier (way too hard on a day off, to boot) because I hadn’t associated any negative connotation with the instance name. I chose this instance because as a home automation hobbiest, I love when shit just works. I read @[email protected] efforts on setting up their gear/testing its capacities to see how said shit will work, and I like graphs and happy seals wanted to be part of that test so I joined 😂 Greetings from Philadelphia and thanks for having me!