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u202307011927 TheLemming @feddit.de
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I'm going to be a bit morbid here, but of all the diseases or mechanical ways to die, which would be your LAST CHOICE if given a preference. Dead last, so to speak.
  • Where the F are serious mental health conditions? When your appearance seems intact from the outside, but inside your reality slowly yet steadily derodes, and there's no way to help it. Going insane. That's for me the last one. Prefer physical pain over losing touch with reality.

  • Well, time to radically change who I am!
  • Happns also offline

    I think you meant Happiness is found offline

  • Your username is the prompt, what did you get? This is mine:
  • anonymous

    That's where you're wrong kiddo. Your .exe is more anonymous than this software linked there

  • Your username is the prompt, what did you get? This is mine:
  • This is so cute 🙈 what is the story behind it?

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  • (ノ´ з `)ノ

  • What is your favorite passive agressive insult to send in chat?
  • Especially if he follows through. That's everything but passive 😬

  • Um...you're in prison
  • Damn

  • Can a company can itself Twitter now?
  • and he can call sue

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  • Just carry your own landline with you at that point then

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  • Okay, another option; unplug the power chord

  • Um...you're in prison
  • Even prison … who would've thought

  • What's your opinion on life? Do you think it's worth it?
  • What level are you at, if I may ask?

  • What's your opinion on life? Do you think it's worth it?
  • Meaning is principically found in relativity to something else. In a database, items only have a meaning because they've got a connection and relation. Your shoes have meaning because their purpose is to be worn, so your feet are protected. Relational beings' purpose, our purpose, is to live in relationship - with which I'm trying to say, our meaning can only be found in relationship.

    Wether those relationship are pleasant, gratifying and uplifting or discouraging, debilitating and grueling depends on the habits, choices and abilities of how we interact with each other

    So, by just existing there's inherent meaning (and value, purpose) included in us already

  • What's your opinion on life? Do you think it's worth it?
  • Can't ask the dead ... the unborn this

  • What's your opinion on life? Do you think it's worth it?
  • What's ... what's the alternative?

  • ich🍝💤iel
  • Eben. Find's schade wenn das Wort Trigger missbraucht wird einfach nur weil es cool klingt - und die Leute für die es wirklich um Leben und Tod, und ihre mentale Existenz geht nicht mehr ernst genommen werden wenn sie mitteilen "Das triggert mich" weil es ja nicht so schlimm ist ...

    Ist nicht böse gemeint. Möchte nur drauf aufmerksam machen :)

  • recommend me a FOSS android app that I can use to automate stuff on my phone

    For example, I want to have one QR code that I can scan (or NFC tag) and then it turns of network access for specific apps on my phone where people could try to reach me

    (I want to be in control of my mental and emotional access/peace)

    • It's got to be Free&OpenSourceSoftware tho

    Thanks :)

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    ich🎮iel

    Nach über 60'000 Zügen und 16 Stunden (und knapp 1375 Rücknahmen) endlich den bestmöglichen Highscore in 2048 erreicht. Hat sich gelohnt, war erfolgreich

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    What's the cheapest online storage that you know of?

    I'm looking for a diskspace of possibly 1TB online

    Edit: my idea is to use it like as an external harddisk for everyday stuff. Encrypt the disk, put my filesystem on it, mount it as external drive kinda. Never worry about backups or lost data etc, as the provider would take care of it

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    [IdentitySelf] It takes courage to heal from the things you wouldn't speak about in public settings (aka who are you?)

    It takes courage to heal in general. To grow out of your toxic habits. To not bash yourself over for where you aren't finished developing into the version of yourself, that you want to be one day. It takes courage to not blame yourself, for your errors and mistakes and eery deeds, your wrongdoings -- whilst not anestethizing yourself with selfpitty at the same time either.

    It takes courage to remove yourself from external opinions and take inventory of your mind and notice adopted opinions on/over yourself.

    It takes courage to let go of others voices and hasty and often ignorant conclusions about you. And take space to do an honest self-evaluation.

    It takes real courage to not just give in and to decide to grow out of the chaotic aftermath that your past toxic environments left in you.

    But to look at the consequences your actions caused around you. It takes even more courage to still continue staying and make things the right way now. And it takes the greatest courage to not bind your sense of value and identity to your past flaws and errors, your past behavior, to see that you are much more than just that what once happened ❤️

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    Why, as a male, when emotionally do I only feel accepted by women but not by men?

    Edit2: It's a subjective perception I'm talking about. Are you offended? Why?

    What's the matter, why can't men deal with me being sensitive and emotional? Is it because they struggle with me reminding them of having, too, emotions?

    Edit: Do men think I'm weak when I show emotions? If so, why?? Why do women see it as a sign of strength when men are vulnerable, but men don't seem to get it? Are they/are we dumb??

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    How can I practice being more emotionally available as a man?

    What's your positive examples of men, fathers, friends, work colleagues, brothers, etc where they were or are emotionally available?

    I feel in todays' society, men are pressured to fit into this image of having to be emotionless. Thus most of us grow up in empty homes with emotionally absent fathers. That sucks and I don't want my kids to have to suffer such such

    I won't reply probably but I'm interested in your answers. Thanks in advance!

    PS;nsfw

    Also, this is why I often would indulge in watching porn - because I crave emotional connection/availability. But I don't need to have my mind cluttered with these images and so, hence I want to practice being emotionally self-aware, present and safe

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    How can I make use of the time that I spend alone constructively?

    I couldn't learn this in teenagehood nor early adolescence so I have to learn it now. I don't want to go into details of my upbringing, but think about a kid living on the streets, growing up only knowing war and survival

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    btrfs @lemmy.ml TheLemming @feddit.de

    Is it possible to encrypt my harddisk when using btrfs?

    Update:

    With the native Manjaro installer I succeeded in making my disk encrypted. But it's below the btrfs layer (btrfs sits inside the encryption)

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    To the people that would consider themselves once having been crazy and now feel sane again - what was the narrative that helped you sort out your mind?

    A bit of background; Someone I know told me, sometimes they feel crazy 'cause there are just so incredibly many different narratives and stories in their mind, about all the relationships they're in... they forget who they are themselves sometimes, don't know what to trust and believe so they feel very overwhelmed. Like, they want to trust, but who/what to trust in?

    Which storyline should they align themself with, again?

    Or, how can I help them? Maybe not engage in their irrational overthinking, but rather lead them help ground themself by taking care of their physical needs first? Sleep, water, food, exercise, etc

    Serious answers please. Thankyou!

    Edit: also, when those needs are met, what topics should they nurture their mind with to grow their mental health?

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    What's the best vacuum cleaner in your opinion?

    I'm looking for a vacuum cleaner that doesn't need dust bags and gets its power from the wall socket with a cord. The suction power has high priority for me

    Edit: thankyou all for the recommendations, I appreciate it! I realized, although vacuums with bags are in the daily financing more expensive I guess, they are more reasonable to consider in my case

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    Your best friend - why are they your best friend? What is it that they are doing that you feel like at home with them?

    And, how did you get to know them? And how long did it take for you to think of them as your best friend?

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