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ironhydroxide @sh.itjust.works
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Would you go on a trip with your ex-partner and their former affair partner for your kid's sake?
  • If I were in your shoes I'd sit down with the son and ask what he'd like, and try and explain why I'm uncomfortable being around his mother and her new fling. Then in the conversation figure out if his desire is greater than my hesitations, come to an understanding on what we feel the vacation would look like.

    Would it be all 4 just.... Hanging out? Then probably not. That's the most awkward. Or would it be that there are things to do (planned) that could pair off and have some time with son, while his mother and fling does whatever they do? As long as those times are more frequent, and son likes the idea, sure I'd probably accept.

  • What could go wrong?
  • Then everyone decides to look out the left windows at the grand canyon.

    And then slowly shifts to the back of the plane because they want to see it longer.

    Soon they'll see it up close.

  • I legit went and bought a bottle of rum
  • Totally planning on being sick tomorrow and having to call out of work.

    Either I'll be happy drinking and don't want to spoil the joy by having to go to work.

    Or I'll be shitfaced, and totally hungover.

  • Inflation is cooling, yet many Americans are still living paycheck to paycheck
  • The fuck you think investors do at all? What value do they create? They definitely don't pay my wages from their own "investment". My wages are paid from the profits created by myself and coworkers working to create, market, sell, distribute the product. Soon as those profits don't hit targets investors will absolutely vote to downsize or shutter entirely, not "invest" and continue paying wages.

  • Rustdesk not connecting externally

    So, I'm trying to setup self hosted rustdesk. I have it running in a docker container. I have allowed the ports through the firewall. I have setup the same ports forwarded in my router, to the server running rustdesk. I have set the private key on both clients.

    on systems internal network, I can setup the clients to connect with internal IP. And get the "ready" at the bottom. But key mismatch error when trying to actually connect between two internal systems.

    If I setup the client with my external up (and I've tried domain name as well) I get a delay then, "not ready please check your connection", as well as the key mismatch.

    I feel I'm running into two different problems, but I can't find any hints looking through the container logs (in fact, once the containers are running, I don't really get any logs populating when trying to connect a client)

    Any suggestions? I'm at a loss here.

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    AI is like a hammer

    Any tool can be a hammer if you use it wrong enough.

    A good hammer is designed to be a hammer and only used like a hammer.

    If you have a fancy new hammer, everything looks like a nail.

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    remote assistance software suggestions

    I've been using RealVNC for family computer help and have been wanting to setup a self hosted replaced for a while now, but haven't had the time. RealVNC has recently axed their free levels, so I'll use it as a reason to setup a self hosted solution.

    Ideally it would be something like a web page (I have a domain and reverse proxy) where family can go, get a code or a software to run, which will then let me control their system securely.

    I was considering guacamole on a pi at each location I'm likely to have to support, but this doesn't help when family is away from their home network on laptop.

    What is out there for this? Have you used it? What are your experiences?

    Thanks

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    Suggestions on bootcamps?

    I've been playing around with Arduino and esp for ~10yrs, just googling, copying around code snippets, and reading compiler fail logs.

    I'm fed up with my lack of ability to understand larger projects and more in depth programming (pointers, objects, etc)

    I'm mostly focused on embedded software (iot, iiot, etc.) So probably looking at staying with C,C++ or rust?

    I'm fine with investing some $$, but don't particularly feel I want to spend more that $1k at the moment to fix my ignorance.

    What bootcamps would you suggest?

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