Looking to introduce yourself or meet others? Use this thread!
PLEASE READ: Rules and Guidelines
Any dating ads or personals must include “[PERSONAL]” above all other text - this was people don’t solicit those just trying to introduce themselves. Please report any unwanted solicitation or harassment directly to me via DM - I will ban all offending users.
While nobody is required to share more information than they please, we suggest that users include the following info in all personals:
A nickname Age (or a range within 5 years) Gender identity Sexuality Favorite kinks Hard limits Relationship status
Other than that, just have fun and chat with others! Don’t be afraid to show off your personality and flair!
There are no rules and guidelines to follow for introductions, but I want to remind users that we strictly enforce our policy that all active users (posters and commenters) should be 18+, regardless of your local laws.
When did you realize that you were kinky?
I can't say I can pin down an exact time, but by the time I had learned about BDSM on the internet I was sure I would like it. The first thing I remember was REALLY liking the scene in Aladdin where Jasmine was chained up by Jafar
[img_assist|nid=6718|title=|desc=|link=none|align=right|width=420|height=294]Anastasia, the main character, knows nothing about kink or BDSM to start out with - her new lover Christian Grey is her only source of information. And Christian Grey - or rather, his creator, E.L. James - has some pretty w...
Scarleteen is a sex education website that I used for a few years before I turned 18, but it's full of wisdom that can is equally valuable for adults as well. This is a quick read but an important one for anybody looking to get into kink
Might as well introduce myself as our only moderator! I am a 20s male kink-enthusiast based in the western USA where I work as a biologist in academics. I’ve never participated much in the IRL BDSM community, but I’ve been active within the community online since the day I turned 18.
I consider myself a switch and am mainly interested in tease and denial, although I also love bondage, CNC, degradation, and petplay. Other than that, I am in a four year relationship with my lovely girlfriend (also a switch) who is simultaneously the biggest brat and toughest dom I have ever met. I try to be fairly open about my sexuality and have even introduced a few friends to kink… I hope this sub can be a resource, gateway, or lifeline for people like the online BDSM community has always been for me.
Looking forward to hearing from more of you!
PLEASE READ: Rules and Guidelines
Any dating ads or personals must include “[PERSONAL]” above all other text - this was people don’t solicit those just trying to introduce themselves. Please report any unwanted solicitation or harassment directly to me via DM - I will ban all offending users.
While nobody is required to share more information than they please, we suggest that users include the following info in all personals:
- A nickname
- Age (or a range within 5 years)
- Gender identity
- Sexuality
- Favorite kinks
- Hard limits
- Relationship status
Other than that, just have fun and chat with others! Don’t be afraid to show off your personality and flair!
There are no rules and guidelines to follow for introductions, but I want to remind users that we strictly enforce our policy that all active users (posters and commenters) should be 18+, regardless of your local laws.