PLEASE READ: Rules and Guidelines
Any dating ads or personals must include “[PERSONAL]” above all other text - this was people don’t solicit those just trying to introduce themselves. Please report any unwanted solicitation or harassment directly to me via DM - I will ban all offending users.
While nobody is required to share more information than they please, we suggest that users include the following info in all personals:
- A nickname
- Age (or a range within 5 years)
- Gender identity
- Sexuality
- Favorite kinks
- Hard limits
- Relationship status
Other than that, just have fun and chat with others! Don’t be afraid to show off your personality and flair!
There are no rules and guidelines to follow for introductions, but I want to remind users that we strictly enforce our policy that all active users (posters and commenters) should be 18+, regardless of your local laws.
Might as well introduce myself as our only moderator! I am a 20s male kink-enthusiast based in the western USA where I work as a biologist in academics. I’ve never participated much in the IRL BDSM community, but I’ve been active within the community online since the day I turned 18.
I consider myself a switch and am mainly interested in tease and denial, although I also love bondage, CNC, degradation, and petplay. Other than that, I am in a four year relationship with my lovely girlfriend (also a switch) who is simultaneously the biggest brat and toughest dom I have ever met. I try to be fairly open about my sexuality and have even introduced a few friends to kink… I hope this sub can be a resource, gateway, or lifeline for people like the online BDSM community has always been for me.
Looking forward to hearing from more of you!
