What you described seems pretty normal. It actually took me a few months before I was fully comfortable with being called my new name. I also had to use it online for a while before I was willing to try being called it in person.
The first time coming out is always the hardest. I'm glad to hear that it went decently well!
Character creation/editor would be amazing.
A quest log would be great.
A status screen.
Skill increases/level up.
Female or possibly demi-girl. The distinction doesn't make any practical difference to me, so I usually just go by female. I'm trans if that makes a difference in your graph.
My week's been pretty good. I finally came out at work on Friday and it went really well. I did all the name/email change stuff, so it should be all changed over on Monday. I even got some compliments on my makeup and my new name.