Lemming shares the story of meeting their wife on Omegle
Lemming shares the story of meeting their wife on Omegle
Wholesome. I always wanted to use Omegle but I figured it was only appropriate for teens. It's a damn shame.
Omegle has always been primarily men masturbating to (for?) random people on the Internet. It was kind of a cesspool from the beginning so you didn't miss much
Anecdote for the road: I was in my early teens when Omegle was in its heyday. Even then it was a minefield of done people that wanted to roulette chat and men masturbating to primarily children my age. I met a lot of cool people to talk to and it was my first real personal/video interaction with people over the Internet
When I was about 13 I started getting on Omegle to have men masturbate to me and tell me I was pretty. They would always ask how old I was or that I looked young. Looking back I can see that as harmful behavior, but I was old enough to have a semblance of control to never share any identifiable information nor show my face. Basically, Omegle was my homosexual "awakening" as I hadn't had those experiences up to that point
If a similar platform with maybe AI moderation came along I could get behind it. While I don't view my experience as personally damaging, I can see the avenue for grooming and exploitation and I'm glad they finally shuttered
This is such a reductive perspective. Yes, plenty of bad things have happened on Omegle. Likewise plenty of beautiful things have happened on there too.
The “it’s dangerous we’re better off without it” line of thought tends to reduce most things to bland nothingness. One could argue that Lemmy is dangerous in the same way. Children could see terrible things or meet terrible people here. But does that mean it shouldn’t exist?