First time with girlfriend

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Time-Pollution-5969 on 2023-06-27 16:48:54+00:00.

My (20M) girlfriend (19F) is a virgin and she wants to have sex for the first time. I haven’t been with a virgin so I have questions.

I previously fit two fingers inside her, but it was tight at she asked me to go back to one.

Later when she wanted to try sitting on my penis to see what it was like (which is maybe more like 4-5 fingers), it wouldn’t go in - she made it seem like there was a wall there about an inch in.

I would have thought that if I could fit two fingers, there would be no hymen there to “break” per se, however the fact that she hit a wall of sorts with my penis makes it seem like there is.

What’s the likelihood that we need to anticipate a hymen there if I am able to fit two fingers inside her? I plan to be careful regardless, I’m just trying to figure out what to expect.