If it is guarenteed that extras are not available. Do you prefer a sensual message that will leave you frustrated at the end or good massage where you walk away feeeling good? I was really enjoying the sensual message for a while but the more I got them the more frustrated I got about no extras.
I don't really mind a sensual massage that leaves me frustrated. There is something to be said for an hour of teasing like that. However, if I am trying a place for the first time, or planning on going to a place that I know does not offer extras, I always have a 2nd place in mind I visit immediately after and the pop is always amazing by then.