If I wanted to boycott the owner of the NY Yankees but that same owner also owned the Boston Red Sox, but they were the only two teams in the majors, would I stay with either team or go with...

Red team actively wants my friends to die, blue team just passively doesn't care if they die. Shitty choice, sure. Hard one, not so much.

Organize at the lower levels, where real change happens, but when it comes to major elections, vote for harm reduction instead of allowing the worst

Shitty analogy is dumb. Big surprise it's another post from you