Someone here that has never being in a date or asked someone to a date... Why?
Someone here that has never being in a date or asked someone to a date... Why?
I saw that other post about worst dates and honestly can't relate since I've never dated anyone, I just wanted to know if I was the only one here. That's it, you don't have to go deeper if you don't want to
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I've been on 2 first dates and quickly found out that I'm ace. One of them tried to kiss me (was very polite, not creepy, or handsy, so not blaming the guy) but I was mortified. I didn't know what to do so I froze and just made it so uncomfortable. I also felt uncomfortable to be fair. I didn't know what I was supposed to do, if it was going well, what to say, what I should pay, what I should talk about, etc. It was just really stressful for me and I haven't done it since. I wanna say that was about a decade ago, once I left college. And these two dates were my first dates period, as well as my last.
EDIT: I'm also obese, very tall, and unattractive. So no one has asked me out since those two, so it's not like I'm dodging dick on the daily.
Wow wtf I had an almost identical dating experience...I went on one or two (can't remember which) awkward, uncomfortable dates realizing I wasn't into doing it. I felt really bad about it too!! I was probably early 20s at the time. I'm 30 now and have never tried again.
Sometimes I think about trying again with someone from an ace dating website, but no one on there is mutually interested and geographically close enough.
I've tried that as well. Honestly, these days I have one really good friend and I'm kind of good with that 😂