I'm not defending any government. I'm drawing a line between you and the Gazans. They couldn't stop Hamas from building a military base anymore than you can stop the US Government from doing so. Putting that burden on their shoulders and the shoulders of their American relatives is insane at the least.
You're right, no one has responsibility for anything. We should do away with all government. It just holds back the anarchy of the masses. Let's get rid of government and shitty things they invent like the Geneva conventions and the UN and NATO. Who needs all that bs. No one should be able to stand up to the mighty HAMAS.