“A Black person will never say ‘I don’t see colour’ because our race and culture are not the centre of the universe,” explains Shereen Daniels, author of The Anti-Racist Organization: Dismantling Systemic Racism in the Workplace. “We do not have that privilege.”
Not an ad hominem to call you by the name YOU chose for yourself.
And asking a favor of anyone is ALWAYS asking for mercy, whether you realize it or not. Neither of us deserves anything in life, especially not mercy. The sooner you realize this the better your life becomes.