I tried this but it's not working on my site. So basically I am using the default nginx and doin the ssl offloading with Traefik

You can simply use traefik as ssl offloading pointing to the nginx container in the lemmy stack. That’s what I am doing with docker swarm. I have not figured out how to get rid of that additional nginx

don’t worry. I have/had the same state to different lemmy.ml communities. The subscription is pending but the feeds are coming in. In fact that lemmy.ml ist overloaded the sync ist not always working properly

A way to migrate to a smaller "instance" is by using a synology nas with enough bays. You could split them by using ssd hdd raids and dockerize all applications or even create vm on it

could you paste your docker-compose file ? This would help a bit.

yea absuing it as a shopping list for private stuff and the kanban as tasks for work 😅

Running a mail server these days is not that difficult. While using pre-assembled stacks like mailcow only the DNS entries needs to be done. If you want to run it at home you should do some research on routing all the traffic through a wireguard tunnel to preserve a public IP other mail instances will accept

I've started my Lemmy instance on v6 only but needed to add a v4 address at it seems to not sync properly while only using v6. Anyone else encountered the problem ?