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Why don't you?
  • Mostly homophobia I would guess.

  • New Feature to Highlight journalism on Mastodon
  • TL;DR: Articles on mastodon will now automatically link to the author's fediverse handle.

  • New Feature to Highlight journalism on Mastodon

    blog.joinmastodon.org Highlighting journalism on Mastodon

    Today we're launching a new feature that will highlight writers and journalists that are active on the fediverse when their their articles are being shared.

    Highlighting journalism on Mastodon
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    New Feature to Highlight journalism on Mastodon
  • TL;DR: Articles on mastodon will now automatically link to the author's fediverse handle.

  • New Feature to Highlight journalism on Mastodon

    blog.joinmastodon.org Highlighting journalism on Mastodon

    Today we're launching a new feature that will highlight writers and journalists that are active on the fediverse when their their articles are being shared.

    Highlighting journalism on Mastodon
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    We coulda had Bernie...
  • And it wasn't the last time. Remember super Tuesday?

  • The Force Unleashed I/II was not as fun as I thought
  • In my memory people considered them meh at best but I had some fun. I remember the DS version in particular being pretty dope.

  • www.nytimes.com Boys Are Struggling. Male Kindergarten Teachers Are Here to Help.

    Only around 3 percent of kindergarten teachers are men. We interviewed a dozen of them about the joys of the job and the challenges boys face today.

    Boys Are Struggling. Male Kindergarten Teachers Are Here to Help.
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    CNN's debate was no fair fight
  • This is exactly the issue. The bar was set so low. He was barely able to put together a coherent response to the infanticide claims, which was something even the lowest of information voters know is a lie. He let Trump walk all over him on immigration even though Biden put together a "bipartisan" plan that was just a Republican wishlist. If Biden had articulated any of that we'd probably be having a different conversion.

  • www.insidehook.com A Family Virtue That Men Are Pretty Bad at Protecting

    We can get a lot better at "kinkeeping," fellas. Here's how it works.

    A Family Virtue That Men Are Pretty Bad at Protecting
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    Examining Why Men Stopped out of Community College
  • Stopping out seems to be an industry term that refers to semi-quitting school with an intent to return.

  • www.newamerica.org Examining Why Men Stopped out of Community College

    This blog post considers reasons that men stopped out of community college, their likelihood of re-enrolling, and their attitudes about online learning.

    Examining Why Men Stopped out of Community College
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    Why men feel like they can't abandon Masculinity
  • Why tf would you associate with men who would punish you if you don't "live up to a masculine ideal"?

    It's not like men are ever given an explicit choice. Very frequently this means older male relatives.

  • www.psypost.org Conformity to masculine norms tied to higher stress and reluctance to seek mental health help

    A recent study found that men who more strongly endorse traditional masculine norms experience higher stress and are less likely to seek mental health help, emphasizing the need to address gender-specific barriers and promote positive masculine traits.

    Conformity to masculine norms tied to higher stress and reluctance to seek mental health help
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    Why men feel like they can't abandon Masculinity
  • My problem with this is these new qualities are just as likely to be used to build a toxic hierarchy. The problem seems to me to be not just the qualities themselves but the competitive nature that is more or less beaten into boys at a young age.

  • Why men feel like they can't abandon Masculinity
  • I think we're splitting hairs here. They don't want to because they feel like they can't do so without repurcussions.

  • Why men feel like they can't abandon Masculinity
  • This is absolutely true and I'm always surprised there isn't more acknowledgement in progressive women's circles. Simple polling shows that roughly a third of women hold all men to these standards but there are significantly more who exclusively apply it to potential partners (speaking from a very US-centric perspective).

    The honest solution is that women who think this way are simply not good partners, and should be avoided to whatever degree is possible.

  • Why men feel like they can't abandon Masculinity
  • Well it's entirely dependent on their social circle, right? They're the ones who would or would not enforce these norms.

  • Why men feel like they can't abandon Masculinity

    This discussion was inspired by discussion on this post.

    > Toxic man: oh guess I am just gunna keep doing what I am doing if you aren’t going to tell me what to do.

    The reason this comes up is that masculinity is largely based around externally conferred social status. You have to constantly be doing something to maintain an image of masculinity. Often this means some sort of social or physical violence in the right time or place (beat up the mugger to defend your partner, call out your boss when you're being treated unfairly, put rival men in their place). Just as frequently, however, it is the expectation of a certain amount of self sacrifice (paying for meals, military service).

    What they don't understand is how anyone can expect them to maintain their social status when they are avoiding this role that they have been explicitly shown that there will be consequences if they fail to meet. The answer is simple: once you're out of the masculinity rat race, you're out. By refusing to take part in the hierarchy of dominance you will eventually be subject to a more general and, frankly, human set of standards.

    The only problem is that all of these pressures are external in the first place and this whole dynamic creates strong social gender boundaries. It is very easy for a lot of men to look at their social circles and see exclusively people who punish them for a failure to live up to a masculine ideal.

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    Dumb fucks
  • Ruined?

  • Stonehenge not visibly damaged by protest paint. It's clean and ready to rock the solstice
  • This is by design and most people fell for it entirely. Even the second highest content in this thread is carrying water for big oil.

  • Men Need a New Narrative. The Future of U.S. Democracy Depends on It
  • I think you've hit the nail on the head here.

    Toxic man: oh guess I am just gunna keep doing what I am doing if you aren’t going to tell me what to do.

    The reason this comes up is that masculinity is largely based around externally conferred social status. You have to constantly be doing something to maintain an image of masculinity. Often this means some sort of social or physical violence in the right time or place (beat up the mugger to defend your partner, call out your boss when you're being treated unfairly, put rival men in their place). Just as frequently, however, it is the expectation of a certain amount of self sacrifice (paying for meals, military service). What they don't understand is how anyone can expect them to maintain their social status when they are avoiding this role that they have been explicitly shown that there will be consequences if they fail to meet. The answer is simple: once you're out of the masculinity rat race, you're out. By refusing to take part in the hierarchy of dominance you will eventually be subject to a more general and, frankly, human set of standards.

    The only problem is that all of these pressures are external in the first place and this whole dynamic creates strong social gender boundaries. It is very easy for a lot of men to look at their social circles and see exclusively people who punish them for a failure to live up to a masculine ideal.

  • www.sheknows.com How Sexist Men See Themselves As the 'Good Guys' — & Why So Many Boys Are Listening

    Believing the myths that the Harrison Butkers and the Andrew Tates are selling allows boys and men to feel like heroes, even as they're hurting the women on whose backs they stand.

    How Sexist Men See Themselves As the 'Good Guys' — & Why So Many Boys Are Listening
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    Apple refuses to call Apple Intelligence 'AI'
  • I dunno if 'Siri but functional' is good enough to get points from me. That said this is definitely good for the industry

  • ‘Embarrassingly simple’ probe finds AI in medical image diagnosis ‘worse than random’
  • By casting doubt on a related but fundamentally different bit of medical tech? Yeah that's what we need: more folks questioning medicine based on pop science understandings of the technology.

  • Apple refuses to call Apple Intelligence 'AI'
  • I mean the biggest innovation here isn't the "AI" (partially "on-device" or otherwise). It's exposing the apps action hooks to the model.

  • Apple refuses to call Apple Intelligence 'AI'
  • This isn't actually innovative it is just not OpenAIs business model. This recent trend is honestly a much smaller blip than most people recognize.

  • How an Israeli raid freed 4 hostages and killed scores of Palestinians in Gaza

    apnews.com 'Ultimate surprise': How an Israeli raid freed 4 hostages and killed scores of Palestinians in Gaza

    They arrived in the middle of the day, when the squat concrete buildings of the Nuseirat refugee camp are stifling and the narrow streets outside are filled with people.

    'Ultimate surprise': How an Israeli raid freed 4 hostages and killed scores of Palestinians in Gaza
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    www.psypost.org Brain imaging shows parents have heightened neural responses to sons' gender nonconformity

    Recent research shows that parents exhibit stronger neural responses to their own children, especially sons, violating gender norms compared to unknown children. This heightened reactivity is more pronounced among parents with traditional views on gender roles.

    Brain imaging shows parents have heightened neural responses to sons' gender nonconformity
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    www.theguardian.com The 'masculine mystique' – why men can't ditch the baggage of being a bloke

    Far from embracing the school run, most men are still trapped by rigid cultural notions of being strong, dominant and successful. Is it leading to an epidemic of unhappiness similar to the one felt by Betty Friedan’s 50s housewives?

    The 'masculine mystique' – why men can't ditch the baggage of being a bloke
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