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Looking for squeezing recommendations per the therapist
  • for me what helps aside from hugging myself, is a heavy winter or rain coat. (I've got a sailing jacket that I love for both the weight and how it keeps me dry in all circumstances.) And those I always miss during the warm summer days.

  • Just finished "Shogun" by James Clavell
  • Oh yeah absolutely enjoyed that book, and wished I read more of the Asia saga by James Clavell to know how it fits in that even bigger story. Cause I really enjoyed the sort of chess game that was the plot (and reminded me of the best Epic fantasies in that way)

    And no I did not know there was another adaptation of this story coming our way. Did see the previous miniseries from Paramount on blue-ray. With John Rhys-Davies (the actor who played Gimli in LOTR) as Rodrigues as an absolute highlight.

  • 2023 /r/place recap

    had eerlijk gezegd dat de tweede van boven aan de rechterkant hier wel zijn oorsprong had gevonden. Toen ik tegenkwam dat dit niet zo was, dacht ik dat hij alsnog als onderdeel hier misschien gewaardeerd zou worden.

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    New Season 2 Poster!
  • so what is everyone's favourite part of the poster?

    the veins of gold, the saidin/saidar/coloured weaves, the new outfits (except for Mat & Lan's look very similar to season 1 too), seeing the actors in characterm the fight scene with Uno vs the Seanchan, the fight scene with Perrin & Loial vs the seanchan, the mystery of what the background symbolises?

    Personally I always love theorizing about what we get, so any snippets of could this hint at, Is what I love most. (and of course getting excited for season 2)

  • [OC] Raised Bridges in Chicago
  • that is indeed a bittersweet story to this picture. And to make it even worse (maybe) to me all those raised bridges remind me of a greeting/salute that happen in old-fashioned rowing boats by raising all oars when passing by. To me it looked like if the city and/or those bridges are saluting that ship underway.

  • Do you struggle with Interoception? How does it manifest in your life?
  • Yep, very familiar. at times it almost feels like my body is not very well connected to my brain.

    With all information that does not or very late get processed. (like I only notice I am hungry like 2 or 3 hours after I should have eaten something, and than it just completely takes over everything and I cannot think straight)

    Hunger is annoying, but with a schedule managable, same as habits of going to the bathroom, cold you dress according the weatherbulletin. But Heat and knowing where some of my bodyparts hang out is something that I struggle with regularly. For cold you just put on another layer, for heat at a certain level there are no more clothes left to take of. And with my body, at some days it's worse than others. with elbows that hitting doorframes, or other passerby's, small (scrape) wounds or bruises that appear on my body of which I have no clue about their orgins. It doesn't tend to be big things, so I can keep ignoring it and pretending it just is part of me. But on some days I wonder, but what if it did was something big, would I notice it?

  • Don't say "autistic people"
  • Is it weird to have different preferences depending on the language I speak?

    In English I really prefer Autistic person/identity first, over person with Autism/person first. The last seems to me a bit too pretentious for me, as if you really need to pay so much extra attention to what is wrong with me.

    In my native Dutch however I somewhat more align with person first. Basicly you have three options: -ik ben Autistisch/I am Autistic -Ik ben een Autist/I am a Autistic -ik heb Autisme/I have autism The first and last option I don't really mind wich one is used, although to describe myself I would use the first. But the middle one. Well Autist I have heard multiple times used as a curse word. (Dutch tend to use a diseases as curses to describe people) And well that does not help you feel good about yourself, or coming out of the Autism close for one thing. But even outside of people who do this, it made me avoid using that word to describe myself. As I do not want to be associated with the stereotype that belongs with that curse.

    so yeah, I always find this an interesting but slightly difficult to explain question. And shows once more; words matter.

  • I didn't know Goblins could be so nature loving

    Before seeing this community I didn't know Goblins could be nature loving and so friendly. I guess I read to many Tolkienlike fantasy, where they are put on the side of the bad guys wishing to destroy or enslave humans.

    Love this whole new side of them, and it feels almost as another race. (just like those flying little elfs have nothing in common with those more Tolkienlike ones)

    I really love to learn more about this, can you people point me in some directions to find more of them?

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