I think associating your basic online identity with your sexual preferences is pretty weird in the first place. Maybe I just don't get how this is supposed to work. It would be bizarre if my email address or other online identity also directly represented what I prefer in the bedroom.

How do I have an unbiased discussion about gardening or whatever if my address is @gaypower or @whateverhetero

A potential downside is that anything you did on Reddit might be tied to anything you do here. Given enough posts you can eventually dox a person

I'm struggling to see how it even makes sense. Personally I can read 2 languages and kinda a couple more if I try. And google translate can do the rest pretty well. I struggle to think why I wouldn't want tonat least see posts regardless of language, seems like separating people for a silly reason. Maybe I'm weird. It will be interesting to see how this part works out.

Tbh I feel like the language attribute is poorly implemented in lemmy, or at least in the client interfaces I've used. Why is it necessary at all?

Same. Also all my silly alt accounts. Used power delete to edit them all first so hopefully my footprint is several thousands of "u/spez, you suck" comments. A man can dream

I got root

100% agree. I was a redditor for a decade, decided to try lemmy and heard beehaw was a popular one. Tried to sign up, saw they require manual approval with a reason and thought "well fuck" and assumed all servers were the same.

If it weren't for a reddit post a few days later mentioning that some don't require the approval, I would never have tried again

This whole defederation situation seems like putting the power in the hands of the wrong people.

Users should choose what they want to see/interact with. Maybe subs/mods. Not entire servers imho.

If certain subs on beehaw want to restrict access, fine because users choose to participate. If users want to restrict themselves or control their own experience, fine because it only impacts them. But when it's done at a server level you have given too much power to people that aren't part of your community.

Or maybe I'm wrong.. I'm new

for PCs you can just add a hosts file entry, but that's probably not possible/too much work on phones. split horizon DNS is what you want.

As someone that uses both a Pixel and an iPhone, google really does an amazing job of this. Junk calls are blocked, suspicious calls are screened where they are prompted to explain themselves and you can read their answer and have google prompt them for more details or just tell them to get lost. Sounds like Apple is starting to add some of the things Pixel does starting in ios 17 so it should get better.