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What do you use as masturbation material?
  • I find myself looking for mtf trans and crossdressing video content the most. Even if it's vanilla, even if real-life traps are flakes, even if the video is only 2 minutes long, for me masturbation has become a get-it-over-with experience until I find a partner again.

  • What interest would be a "confession" in a new relationship?
  • I put my sexual preferences in my dating profiles and I make sure I'm as direct as the setting allows. I can't understand people who are coy about their sexuality. Mismatching sexuality is absolutely a dealbreaker. I recently spent an entire day with a guy who suddenly decided he wasn't gay. Could have saved me the trouble.

  • What interest would be a "confession" in a new relationship?
  • I think it's good to get people's sexualities out in the open before the relationship even begins. Like, I'm a bottom and I simply don't fuck women (in a conventional sense). Gay guys are more understanding. It's kind of a big deal and I wouldn't want to lead with false assumptions.

  • What naughty fun have you been up to this fortnight? (Aug 19th - Sep 1st)
  • Thanks for the encouragement. My mother is flat as well, but even the slightest hint of breasts is a strong signal to some heterosexual males. I don't see myself as a woman and most others don't either, but at some point I expect the woman switch to flip.

  • What naughty fun have you been up to this fortnight? (Aug 19th - Sep 1st)
  • That's a nice long story with lots of twists and turns. There were a couple of minor grammatical errors and the improper use of double quotes near the bullet points. I like the cute/naughty organization as it helps me find my place without overcomplicating things. It sounds very vanilla tbh, but I guess D is that kind of guy. To me, dad body jerk-off isn't exactly the sexiest thing, but I'm sure to some people it's really hot. (I didn't watch the bonus video but I'm sure people will appreciate it.)

  • What naughty fun have you been up to this fortnight? (Aug 19th - Sep 1st)
  • I'm traaaaaaaaaaans! Started estradiol and spironolactone last week. They say it takes like 10 days to a month to notice things, and so far I haven't seen a reduction in sex drive or alertness beyond my usual ebb and flow. Hair loss hasn't changed either, but my facial and body hair is thinner and softer, improving the feeling after a shave. Finasteride or dutasteride would do the same thing, but I'm hoping for eventual total feminization if possible. (I'm fine with having a dick, but I'm a bottom so I don't need it.)

    I'm fascinated with women's fashion, and my makeup collection now fills a purse. Between Goodwill and Amazon I've accumulated a fairly complete wardrobe. It's mostly slutty stuff of course, and it's always slightly disappointing that I don't yet have titties to fill the tops. I really dig the schoolgirl look. A cosplay set I bought comes with a microskirt that feels like a 26" non-elastic waist (I'm 30", maybe women's size 5 or 6) so the thing rides really high and exposes my junk. UwU I'll be replacing it with a better fit when I go out in public. Hoping to get groped by a stranger on Halloween or something.

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  • They aren't, but chasing down websites in other languages is a pain in the ass. The Japanese see basically all non-Japanese people as copyright infringers. I've downloaded JAV that's bookended and watermarked with Chinese ads because the Chinese have the gall to do that, not the Japanese who probably see it as an annoyance and primarily target the domestic Japanese market anyways.

  • What naughty fun have you been up to this fortnight? (Aug 5th - Aug 18th)
  • Met a fellow 30something crossdresser and free software guy on Hinge. It seemed like a great fit. We met for coffee and talked for a few hours, then he told me he wasn't gay and didn't want to meet me again. For fuck's sake. My ass won't destroy itself. 🥵😭

    Now that I've scrolled through 1000+ profiles and determined that they aren't gay enough for me (I don't really go for masc/closeted/straight-looking people and I try to limit the age range to 25-40s) I really need to figure out what the fuck part of this community I'm overlooking or not understanding. I'm willing to drop out of college and move for the right relationship. Ever since I became a gay femboy, things have gotten harder.

  • Other ways I could make it more spicy in bed ?
  • Have you explored sadomasochism? There are groups on fetlife that meet and may be open to a couple. The usual staple activities are bondage and flogging. Mix some pegging in if you like being more dominant. There are also more extreme kinks that your partner may be into (watersports, puke, fisting).

  • What turns you on?
  • I'm a pan non-binary AMAB and I like femboys and anything BDSM.

    I share pictures sometimes, but not because I enjoy swapping pictures or anything. It's more of a way to get feedback/affirmation. I don't think I would enjoy another long-distance relationship with just swapping pics. Some people do, and I don't judge. Text-based roleplay is interesting, but I think sites like Umbra have absorbed that community.

  • Xubuntu running cmatrix

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    Building and distributing binaries

    It's been a long day and I'm probably not in the best state of mind to be asking this question, but have you guys solved packaging yet?

    I want to ship an executable with supporting files in a compressed archive, much like the Windows exe-in-a-zip pattern. I can cross-compile a Win32 C program using MinGW that will always use baseline Win32 functionality, but if I try to build for Linux I run into the whole dependency versioning situation, specifically glibc fixing its symbol version to whichever Linux I happen to be building from at the time. But if I try to static link with musl, the expectation is that everything is static linked, including system libraries that really shouldn't be.

    AppImage is in the ballpark of what I'm looking for, and I've heard that Zig works as a compatibility-enhancing frontend if you're compiling C. I'd just like something simple that runs 99% of the time for non-technical end users and isn't bloated with dependencies I can't keep track of. (No containers.) Is this easily achievable?

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