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Have you ever won something? A sweepstake, competition, or other? What was it? Tell us your story.
  • I won some stuff in a church raffle when I was a teenager. Nothing remarkable - i think a suitcase.

    I also won some sex toys from a charity raffle for repro rights, but some past partner took them. Not sure who, but I don't have them anymore.

    Thinking about it for the first time now, it is funny how those are two very different contexts.

  • If Canada became a state, Canadians would have ‘much better’ health coverage, says Trump
  • Would you rather reach in and pick an item from

    Sack 1, which contains [rusty nails, angry scorpions, razor blades, one fun sized candy bar]

    Sack 2, which contains [various candy bars, one rusty nail]

    The US is sack 1 in this metaphor. People should improve the canadian system, but there's no reasonable take that they're at all similar

  • Republicans Gravely Offended by Sermon Preaching Christianity
  • Things like this happening in real life are why I think some conservatives are legitimately, sincerely, deeply stupid. And a little cruel.

    https://www.npr.org/2023/08/08/1192663920/southern-baptist-convention-donald-trump-christianity

    It was the result of having multiple pastors tell me, essentially, the same story about quoting the Sermon on the Mount, parenthetically, in their preaching — "turn the other cheek" — [and] to have someone come up after to say, "Where did you get those liberal talking points?" And what was alarming to me is that in most of these scenarios, when the pastor would say, "I'm literally quoting Jesus Christ," the response would not be, "I apologize." The response would be, "Yes, but that doesn't work anymore. That's weak." And when we get to the point where the teachings of Jesus himself are seen as subversive to us, then we're in a crisis.

    I don't know what can be done about this. Humans are tribal and facts can't beat that.

  • what can it mean when a girl (a friend) suddenly acts odd ?
  • Well let me share with you the wisdom of age: often you can just ask someone what's up.

    This also works on dates: you can just ask someone out. You don't have to go all in your head about it. If only someone had told me when I was a teen, alas.

  • What’s the most random item you’ve kept for sentimental reasons?
  • I (a guy) think I still have a small plastic off-brand Lego in my desk. I spent a weekend with my high school crush and we found a bunch of them and had goofy fun with them.

    Last I heard she'd moved away, married a woman, and had a successful career in science. I doubt she thinks of me, but I'm glad she did well.

  • Do you think it's more humiliating for your wife to leave you for another woman instead of her leaving you for another man?
  • I don't accept the premise that it's "humiliating" for a partner to leave.

    I don't accept the premise that them leaving is predicated on sexual performance.

    I don't accept that f+f sex is inferior to m+f

    I'm not even going to go on. Your world view is rigid and not healthy. Maybe spend some time with other people, if they'll have you. Get out of whatever manosphere hole you've fallen into.

  • Netflix Increases Prices Again
  • The other day I had a galaxy brain thought: Imagine if people cared. Just cared a little more. Things could be so much better.

    Like, litter. Imagine if people just cared a little more and didn't litter. Whole problem just goes away.

    If people cared a little more and just canceled their netflix when the price went up (or they did other nonsense), maybe things would change.

    But I'm told I have impossible standards and people cannot meet my expectations.

  • Americans hate high prices. Mass deportations could spark new surges.
  • If americans were on average smarter and better informed, then we wouldn't be in this situation. I don't think the majority of people will understand what's happening. They'll blame the jewish space lasers or gay frogs or whatever instead.

  • Trump Orders U.S. Exit From the Paris Agreement on Climate
  • And yet when someone's like "the GOP is an existential threat and we should treat them accordingly" it's all "you're being alarmist" and "murder is a crime"

    I hope every member of the GOP chokes to death alone and removed from everything they ever loved.

  • Who's playing in the .32 tournament?

    Not sure if this community is dead, but here we are!

    I kind of stopped playing new versions around .28 because I really disliked the opportunity attacks mechanism, but I thought I'd give .32 a try. The new shapeshifter things look cool, but in fussing with it a bit it's harder than I expected.

    But now the tournament is live! Who's playing?

    https://crawl.develz.org/tournament/0.32/

    I currently have one win with ye olde MiBe. Got lucky with good armor early on, and then cruised to a 3 rune (shoals + snake + vaults) win.

    There was one dicey moment in the lungs where I went around the corner to reveal 4 orbs of fire, some draconians, and a lightning golem all waiting for me. Hasted + Fog'd my way the hell out there.

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    how do people feel about spears?

    I tried it a bit with my reaper in pve and it seemed okay, but I wasn't doing anything challenging that really put it to the test. I haven't tried the others classes yet.

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    Polyamory & Open Relationships @kbin.run jjjalljs @ttrpg.network

    How are your metamor relationships?

    Currently, I'm polite to friendly with all of them. No outstanding conflicts. It's sometimes literal kitchen table poly with one, and the others I only see at like parties and such.

    Some years ago I had two partners that absolutely did not get along with each other, and that was rough. Recently I was able to do a dinner with 3 partners and everyone had a good time.

    I try not to make a big deal about folks meeting. I try to model after meeting your friend's friends.

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    Polyamory & Open Relationships @kbin.run jjjalljs @ttrpg.network

    How do you find other poly people?

    For me there's a bit of a network effect where the polycule sprawls out into the distance. Partners have partners who have partners.

    But for disconnected folks, it's mostly been tinder (yuck), and a local meetup.

    (Also this might be the first post? That or nothing federated yet)

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    LFG @ttrpg.network jjjalljs @ttrpg.network

    Looking for a Thursday Evening Game

    I'm looking for players for a weekly game of Fate. I'm thinking something like a mix of Shadowrun and World of Darkness, where the players are vigilantes looking to make the world better. It would start (and maybe stay) at the street level, rather than global or cosmic.

    I've been playing and running games for 20+ years.

    LGBT friendly. New players okay. Unreliable players less so.

    Message me if you're interested. Include a blurb about yourself, your experience with games, with fate specifically, and a joke of your choosing.

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    What's up with memes suffixed with "rule"?

    Like I saw one that was titled "I wonder why rule" and had a picture about overpaid CEOs or something.

    Why "rule"? What's the origin of this format?

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