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www.sapiens.org What Industrial Societies Get Wrong About Childhood

The industrial world’s practice of placing children in classes of similar ages with an adult teacher is not the only way to learn.

What Industrial Societies Get Wrong About Childhood

"Each year across the world, kids of roughly the same age are packed into classrooms and confined to desks with the intent of learning from an adult teacher.

But is this how children were adapted to learn?

In today’s technologically dependent, economically complex world in which a particular subset of skills is critical, fact-based knowledge is no doubt best imparted from those with experience—which is usually adults.

But what about social learning? Humans as a species are set apart by their incredible dependence on one another; cooperation is at the heart of both an individual’s survival and a functioning society. So, how do children typically learn to cooperate?

Anthropological research in small-scale societies—including my work among with the Pumé of Venezuela and the Maya living in the Yucatan Peninsula—resoundingly suggests that they learn from one another.

Schooling and growing up in small nuclear families have been the norm for only the past century or so in industrialized societies—just a brief flash in evolutionary time. Childhood in these societies is commonly thought of as a period requiring intense adult investment dedicated to learning and instruction. But research in nonindustrial, small-scale societies—the kinds of communities that all our ancestors lived in both deep in the past and until fairly recently—gives a different picture.

Today children in industrialized societies spend a lot of time in supervised environments with adult direction.

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How has your child or children changed your relationship with your partner? How has it changed your perspective on yourself?
  • Since I asked, I guess I should answer too:

    We suffered from post-natal depression, which I can assure is no joke. This was pretty intense for at least six months (after which we went on a prolonged holiday to our family which caused a lot of relieve), however lingered for probably 2 years and even now had aftereffects.

    We are both expats, so we didn't have family to support, which in retrospect I would say makes things a lot harder.

    I think the relationship is now very focused on the kid and we have to make plans for time together, like @[email protected] said, which is sometimes difficult.

    In terms of perspective on myself:

    I rediscovered in my kid a lot of things about myself I simply forgot. Both, good and bad. It also provided me with an enormous amount of perspective on what is important and why. I believe that being a parent made me a lot more compassionate towards others and myself. I was, and probably still am, pretty involved in work, however any successes or frustrations at work are fully mediated by my kid simply wanting to play and hang out with me.

    To me having kids has been the most intense of experiences. And without sounding like a cliche, I'd like to say that it is for sure the most rewarding one, no matter how difficult at times. I'd compare it to being totally in love and infatuated with a psychopath on a bad day, and literally hanging out on the beach (which we did today) on a good one :D

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    How has your child or children changed your relationship with your partner? How has it changed your perspective on yourself?

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    'I was very nervous': How daycare centres are exposing children to risky play --- tldr it works well :)

    www.abc.net.au 'I was very nervous': How daycare centres are exposing children to risky play

    Teachers and parents are finding a way to be hands off when their children look like they're in a bind, instead giving them space to challenge themselves and succeed and fail.

    'I was very nervous': How daycare centres are exposing children to risky play

    "Woodlands Early Education Centre, in Logan south of Brisbane, as well as nine others in the chain have recently overhauled their yards to increase children's exposure to risk.

    ...

    While the new grounds may look dangerous — a towering fort (with open edges), 1.6-metre-high balance beams, and climbing walls (without a fall mattress) — the data shows the opposite.

    There has actually been a 43 per cent reduction in reported injuries at the centre."

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    PSA: Don't tell Western doctors/therapists that you're a Leftist. The American Psychological Association (APA) classifies anti-capitalists, animal rights advocates and environmentalists as terrorists.
  • I think the problem people see is more with creating an equivalence of political opinion and mental health.

    The full quote about anti-capitalism doesn't say anything about what makes someone an extremist. It doesn't say anything about rational criticisms and irrational ones it just relates political attitudes. It doesn't say anything about how we would separate rational criticism from extremism. That is a problem, no?

    The take home message doesn't help at all when a dissident deals with an oppressive system. E.g. how would that message be applied in Germany in 1933? Or 1939? Or 1942? I don't think it can at all. How would it be applied to say US intervention, or colonisation? Again, I don't think the message would hold up.

    Do you think that the scientific method is applied here in an appropriate way?

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    Facebook Knows Instagram Is Toxic for Teen Girls, Company Documents Show

    > For the past three years, Facebook has been conducting studies into how its photo-sharing app affects its millions of young users. Repeatedly, the company’s researchers found that Instagram is harmful for a sizable percentage of them, most notably teenage girls. > > “We make body image issues worse for one in three teen girls,” said one slide from 2019, summarizing research about teen girls who experience the issues. “Teens blame Instagram for increases in the rate of anxiety and depression,” said another slide. “This reaction was unprompted and consistent across all groups.” > > Among teens who reported suicidal thoughts, 13% of British users and 6% of American users traced the desire to kill themselves to Instagram, one presentation showed.

    The whole article reads like a horror show. Corporate representatives use Orwellian language to justify and minimise the problem... The Head of Instagram is quoted in this section:

    > In May, Instagram head Adam Mosseri told reporters that research he had seen suggests the app’s effects on teen well-being is likely “quite small.” > > In a recent interview, Mr. Mosseri said: “In no way do I mean to diminish these issues.…Some of the issues mentioned in this story aren’t necessarily widespread, but their impact on people may be huge.” > > He said he believes Facebook was late to realizing there were drawbacks to connecting people in such large numbers. “I’ve been pushing very hard for us to embrace our responsibilities more broadly,” he said. > > He said the research into the mental-health effects on teens was valuable, and that Facebook employees ask tough questions about the platform. “For me, this isn’t dirty laundry. I’m actually very proud of this research,” he said.

    "I'm very proud of this research and pushing really hard for change"... while cashing in and making sure that the hard push won't cause damage to the profits I'm sure.... >:(

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    Immersive Math - Linear Algebra

    Really nice, interactive illustrations to provide a really nice introduction to linear algebra.

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    www.itnews.com.au Police get online account takeover, data disruption powers

    After "extraordinary" bill passes federal parliament.

    "The bill grants the Australian Federal Police and Australian Criminal Intelligence Commission new powers to combat serious crime enabled by anonymising technology using three new warrants: network activity, data disruption and account takeover.

    With the warrants, both agencies can take control of a person’s online account to gather evidence about serious offences without consent, as well as add, copy, delete or alter material to disrupt criminal activity and collect intelligence from online networks."

    Unbelievable....

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    A thread "Please don't use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression" on Mastodon
  • There is a difference between people advocating for human rights abuses and people saying that some actor does in fact not engage in human rights abuses. The difference is stark and even there, if the actor would in fact in engage in human right abuses.

    An open society must tolerate the later. I.e. we must tolerate that people dispute that human right abuses occur or occurred. This is because you cannot judge someone purely due to getting the facts wrong or not knowing them.

    If we wouldn't allow this, we would de-facto argue for a totalitarian state, since we wouldn't allow people disputing facts (which can be proven or disproven). We would have to nominate some entity that judges what is fact and what isn't, which is the opposite to gathering evidence and engaging in an open, society wide discussion.

    To be clear: Allowing discussions around whether abuses occur is notably different to letting people get away with advocating for abuses. The latter is what needs strong responses. The former is what requires engagement.

    I don't see anything on lemmy or in the mastodon thread that shows that human rights abuses are advocated for. What I do see is that there are some fractions that show sympathies to China which you would otherwise only see for the USA. I think its useful to compare these sympathies because they seem to express themselves in similar ways.

    With all that said, I think the opinion expressed in the mastodon thread is not particularly useful. It, in many ways, minimises real human rights abuses that occur world wide, day to day, in China, USA, and many other countries in East and West.

    Let's call out the abuses, let's discuss and present the evidence for them, let's not alienate people and create polarity that looks like us-vs-them.

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    www.seanblanda.com My dead dad’s journal: How I finally met a man I knew for my entire life

    For some reason, when my brother told me our dad was dead, I immediately went and listened to my voicemails. He left me silly voicemails often and I wanted to hear his voice. I came across the last voicemail he ever left me, a month before. This one wasn’t

    My dead dad’s journal: How I finally met a man I knew for my entire life

    A very emotional read....

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    www.abc.net.au More than 200 anti-lockdown protesters arrested, six police officers hospitalised after violent Melbourne demonstration

    Police say 218 people were arrested and six officers were hospitalised after Saturday's violent anti-lockdown protests in Melbourne. Similar, but less violent, rallies were held in cities across the country.

    Doesn't look like the gyms will open again this year .... :(

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    spotthedrowningchild.com Spot The Drowning Child

    Can you spot the drowning child in this crowded wave pool? An interactive public service announcement. To the untrained eye, drowning can look just like swimming. The Instinctive Drowning Response is frequently missed, even by people nearby.

    Spot The Drowning Child

    Spotting drowning children, or people in general, is apparently very difficult.

    The website shows some examples.

    Relevant HN discussion

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    aeon.co Why we need to discuss a death in the family with the children | Aeon Essays

    We no longer have a clear sense of how to introduce our children to death. But their questions can help us face up to it

    Why we need to discuss a death in the family with the children | Aeon Essays

    Excerpt:

    "One of my four-year-old twins is obsessed with death. She wants to know everything about dying. Again and again, she asks me to tell her about what happens when people die. Initially, I was a little surprised by her fascination with ‘died’ people, as she calls them, but then it became clear that she was thinking a lot about this whenever she was quiet.

    ‘Will you tell me more about dying. What happens when people die?’ she asks me every night before bed.

    ‘Their bodies stop working. Their hearts stop working,’ I tell her.

    ‘Is this what happened with Naanaa?’

    Naanaa – my father, their grandfather – died in November last year. The twins met him only once, just before their third birthday when we visited India in 2019, although we tried to speak regularly over FaceTime. We were due to visit again in early 2020, but then the COVID-19 pandemic struck, and slowly he became more ill, more frail; the loneliness and isolation of the lockdown, and the lack of adequate healthcare during these weeks and months, took their toll on him.

    Preschool children can make sense of death, but only through their parent’s grief, and this is clearly what is happening here: I’d travelled to India and stayed for a week after my father’s funeral and was very open with my children about my sadness. I want them to understand that their grandfather is dead, and I want them to know him, if only through my memories. I also want to normalise talking about death going hand-in-hand with life, especially as right now, with the world in the midst of an unprecedented pandemic crisis, my children hear my husband and I talking about death so often."

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    gizmodo.com Australian Cops Spy on Covid Check-In App Despite Privacy Promises From Government

    Police are trying to find potential witnesses to a motorcycle gang murder.

    The whole line of arguing is just aweful...

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    www.theguardian.com Euro 2020: Guardian Experts' Network | Football | The Guardian

    A unique collaboration by the best media outlets on the continent, bringing a local flavour and expertise to our coverage of Euro 2020

    There are some good articles on the upcoming Euro 2020.

    In particular I like the team guides, introducing each team with background, strengths and outlook

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    What I do for a living

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    Except the number is wrong and they are the leader...

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    Immediate skin-to-skin contact with unstable newborns improves chances of survival

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    "In newborns with a very low birth weight, continuous skin-to-skin contact immediately after delivery, even before the baby has been stabilized, can lower mortality by 25%. This is according to a study published in The New England Journal of Medicine that was organized by the WHO on the initiative of researchers at Karolinska Institutet focusing on low- and middle-income nations.

    One of the most effective approaches to avoid newborn mortality is to keep the newborn and mother in constant skin-to-skin contact, often known as “kangaroo mother care” (KMC). The World Health Organization (WHO) currently recommends that skin-to-skin contact begin as soon as a low-weight infant is stable enough, which usually takes several days for babies weighing less than 2 kg at birth. "

    I thought this one is super interesting.

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    www.theguardian.com Study finds alarming levels of ‘forever chemicals’ in US mothers’ breast milk

    Toxic chemicals known as PFAS found in all 50 samples tested at levels nearly 2,000 times what is considered safe in drinking water

    Study finds alarming levels of ‘forever chemicals’ in US mothers’ breast milk
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    How to do philosophy for – and with – children – Jana Mohr Lone | Aeon Essays

    aeon.co How to do philosophy for – and with – children | Aeon Essays

    Kids don’t just say ‘the darndest things’. Playful and probing, they can be closer to the grain of life’s deepest questions

    How to do philosophy for – and with – children | Aeon Essays

    When I tell someone that I run a centre that brings philosophy into children’s lives, much of the time I’m greeted with puzzlement, and sometimes open scepticism. How can children do philosophy? Isn’t it too hard for them? What are you trying to do, teach Kant to kindergarteners? Or, somewhat more suspiciously, what kind of philosophy are you teaching them?

    These reactions are understandable, because they stem from very common assumptions – about children and about philosophy. Central to our work at the Center for Philosophy for Children at the University of Washington is the conviction that we ought to challenge beliefs about children’s limited capacities, and to expand our understanding of the nature of philosophy and who is capable of engaging in it. As one seven-year-old put it: ‘In philosophy, we’re growing our minds.’

    Most of our philosophy sessions with children are in public elementary schools; the aim is to discover what topics the children want to think about, and to foster discussions and reflection about these subjects. I don’t think of what I do as teaching philosophy, though. The point is not to educate children about the history of philosophy, nor to instruct them in the arguments made by professional philosophers.

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    www.theguardian.com New law allows Australian government to indefinitely detain refugees

    Human rights groups warn the law gives the immigration minister a new power to overturn refugee status

    Human rights groups – and parliament’s own human rights committee – say a new law pushed through parliament gives the government the power to indefinitely detain refugees, potentially for the rest of their lives.

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    Why lichess will always be free

    "Most “free” websites subsist by selling ads or selling user data. Others do it by putting all the good stuff behind paywalls. Lichess doesn’t do any of that and never will. Almost 6 years ago, Lichess founder Thibault explained why Lichess is free - and what that means. A lot can change in 6 years but this is one thing that hasn't and never will.

    This is our unbreakable promise to you, our users:

    Lichess will never have ads. Lichess will never sell our user’s data. Lichess will always be 100% free of charge. "

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