I would say probably variety. I'm very open minded and kinky while she's more vanilla. Can sometimes get frustrating when I'm really horned up and wanting to get kinky but her kinkiest thought is doing doggystyle. We've been introducing some bondage, gags, buttplugs, sex-slave roleplay, etc that's starting to really help spice things up but it can still be kinda tough to get her to buy into doing that stuff sometimes still.
Probably 3-5 times a week most of the time. Sometimes we'll go a little while doing it every day and sometimes we might go a week or so without it. Frequency depends largely on how busy we are or how stressful work is.
I keep my private life private. Don't discuss with people other than my partner IRL at all. I do talk about it sometimes on the internet if it's anonymized.
I've been uploading to catbox.moe since redgifs doesn't seem to embed at all for me, but yeah gif embedding is pretty rough. Pretty frequently only shows only the first frame as a static image or adds a bunch of nasty artifacting.
My gf and I like sex slave roleplay. My biggest fantasy with it is to throw a party where she has to serve everyone wearing a sexy outfit. She'd be free use for anyone at the party, and it eventually ends up with her doing a blowbang/gangbang/bukkake.