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ericatty @lemmy.ml

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Women of Lemmy: would you date someone who buy porn on OF?
  • I'm married, pre OF. If interactive content... I don't know... would depend on how much money and talking was involved and if it felt like addiction.

    But i knew my husband watched porn and went to strip clubs sometimes while we dating. I married him 25 years ago. Last strip club trips we went together 20 years ago. Was fun, now they are too young to be fun in person. Back then we watched some vids together to explore what we were into.

    We don't interfere with each other's porn consumption now. I read, listen to audio mainly, he's low key with his. We don't spend money on it anymore, tons of free stuff.on the internet. But we are still open about it, and give each other a hard time, joking, every now and then.

  • How can I get YouTube to not offer rage-inducing stuff?
  • I use it now quite a bit. And I've been subscribing more. Before I fell down the jjk rabbit hole, I hadn't realized how mamy creators were being suggested that I'd never hit follow on, but would watch often.

  • Taking Pirated Copies Offline Can Benefit Book Sales, Research Finds.
  • I feel this way about music too. Not just pirated tunes, but copyright takedowns on shorts and in yt vids

    Finding new artists as a fan is hard enough. If someone has reposted your music video as their own, sure I get it.

    But a minute clip or less? Fans or haters talking about it? Let that thing fly free baby! I've found so much new music that was background music. I use the family Spotify account or buy merch more than I buy music these days to support.

    I've bought so many books from authors that became my favs after they did a free epub once that got my attention.

    There's always the "do this thing free for the exposure" problem - but people who say that are usually trying to exploit artists for their own gain. Fans are different, they are grass roots and not trying to exploit, but trying to recruit.

  • How are you doing Lemmy?
  • Afraid of being asked this irl and dropping tmi. But since this is the Internet...

    I'm 52 and going through what feels like a 2nd fucking puberty. I'm feeling creative again, but this time with panic attacks, and enough experience to own the Art of Procrastination to a level that matches Gojo's Limitless. I'm dodging that shit like it's effortless until the last possible moment and then crush it. So far.

    I have so, so much to worry about, I've shorted out. My brain is simply in denial so I will probably have a sleep paralysis panic attack again soon.

    At least there's some good stuff too and I'm clinging to that. And my hyperfocusing/fixation on stuff has come in handy, even when using to avoid other things.

  • Antarctic temperatures rise 10C above average in near record heatwave
  • Yeah, my step-son is planning to adopt if he and his fiancee want kids. Climate isn't the only reason, but even before he ever met her, he told me he'd rather adopt than bring more people into the world.

  • Let's put her on saline & discharge right away
  • Similarly, my husband has tattoos and a beard. He's also in chronic pain from old injuries and some other health issues. He doesn't drink or do drugs, barely takes OTC stuff either because it interferes with his medication for HBP and stuff. Staff and doctors usually assume he's drug seeking and just want to send him home without trying to help.

    Finally found a doctor that actually sees him and not his tattoos and tries to help. It has taken years.