Anytime, Pal

I'm sorry I don't really have advice for your situation. I just want to say that you seem very strong for putting up with these abnormal levels of bullshit, and your ex sounds like a real asshole. I think you should do what you have to do, but your health should come first if it can. I'm sure this situation will change in the future. I hope you keep being the badass you are because at least to this random stranger, you matter.