NTA. Your kids were old enough to know the truth.

One of the sub I joined has been mostly private since the protest began. They only open the sub up once a week or so for the community to vote for the next step the sub should take.

I think I'll mostly be staying here. But there're a few subreddits that I might check from time to time. But if those communities move elsewhere then there's a chance that I would abandon Reddit entirely.