Peeing in it is a bit messy but it doesn't spray everywhere. I can wear it long term at home but wouldn't want to go out with it, I'd prefer something with a bit more room.
It's comfortable and emasculating but that's kinda the point right? I got a strap too to keep it tighter to my body. When I get horny I can feel myself straining but it's never painful.
I first found out about chastity watching femdom Joi videos. I liked the idea of not being in control of my orgasms or if I'm even allowed to have an erection so I ordered a cage.
I've been doing this on my own (no partner or dom) and the constant denial of pleasure makes for a better orgasm when I do allow myself one. I've been keeping a schedule of one per week and staying caged the rest of the time (only when at home, haven't had the confidence to wear a cage to work yet but I'd like to do it soon).
Ultimate goal is to find a dom to use and control me.
I've recently orgasmed for the first time in a cage and it was incredible but still left me wanting more. If you're into femdom/being humiliated, you'll probably like it. If not, you'll probably be unsatisfied.
I've tried ruining before but never followed through. Hopefully chastity will give me the discipline to finally do it.
I've only started about a month or so ago. No active relationship. Doing this of my own accord to masturbate less and make what orgasms I do allow myself to have better.
I unlock to shower and shave but otherwise it's always on when I'm home. I haven't worked up the courage to wear it to work yet. It's easy to clean up after peeing and is comfortable to wear while wearing shorts at least. I have a new cage coming soon. Excited to try it