Wait a minute, how can a mobile 3060 (12GB one) be faster than the desktop version?
Sorry I didn't know the answer, but it's nice that lemmy also has rss! How do I use it, just add .rss behind community link?
Do you browse from PC or phone? On PC there's a setting for DoH in Firefox. Go to Privacy & Security, scroll down until you find DNS over HTTPS, then choose Max Protection. It's similar on the phone too.
Unfortunately habit is hard to change. It also doesn't help that federation is quite confusing, especially for non-tech people. The apps being pretty much in alpha/beta is another problem. I'm having a hard time browsing lemmy on my potato phone. The website seems as heavy as new reddit. Kbin is a little lighter. Maybe there's another hope when the API is finally dead and the apps become useless.