Not the strongest weapon ever, but it's not that bad imo. Flails are always at least decent damage-wise, and often surpass even further tier weapons when upgraded. They allow anged builds in need of a melee weapon to save some SoUs in exchange for some reliability and melee surprise attacks (which, as others noted, shouldn't really be used much in this case), and with a 16 strength requirement you don't always need to use a potion of mastery in order to equip it earlier.
Outside of this scenario it's definitely a bit lackluster - it may be stronger than most weapons, but melee builds often either prefer hitting more times rather than doing lots of damage in a single sweep, or have a way to amp up their damage without penalties. And, of course, it's basically unusable for rogues.
But all things considered, I think it's fine as of now. Neither bad nor good, an option like many others.
Should I go for Warlock or Battlemage?
Title. Note that I have 5 SoUs and just beat Tengu, so 9 left to find. Also, which wand should I imbue? Warding has been fun up until now, but I fear it could be a bit weak in the late game, I'm not used to it. I don't really like regrowth so I'm also thinking I could imbue for a free SoU and then imbue something else (I still have 4 wand preservation uses)