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Mom Takes Her Adult Son Apartment Hunting & Realizes There is No Way He Can Afford To Live On His Own — ‘Millennials Are Not Lazy’
  • That's not what he said. He said in a conversation that 40k wouldn't hypothetically be a down payment 35 years ago. I didn't say housing is cool today, I said that the conversation he had 35 years ago was very atypical and housing wasn't impossible to afford until relatively recently. No, the experience of Gen X 20-30 years ago shouldn't be compared to the experience of today as if they were the same.

  • Mom Takes Her Adult Son Apartment Hunting & Realizes There is No Way He Can Afford To Live On His Own — ‘Millennials Are Not Lazy’
  • What are you talking about? I was responding to someone who said they couldn't afford a house 35 years ago with 40k down. It's only been in the last few years 40k wouldn't be enough and even that is only if you go conventional mortgage instead of one of the other programs.

    3% down FHA $40k will purchase you a $1.2 million house.

  • Mom Takes Her Adult Son Apartment Hunting & Realizes There is No Way He Can Afford To Live On His Own — ‘Millennials Are Not Lazy’
  • I've bought two homes with a price tag under 80k - most recently about 15 years ago (and it was a fixer upper to be sure) and sold it for about that 12 years ago. My first house I bought when I was 23. 27 years ago. I don't recall what I put down, but it was under $5k.

    Which isn't to argue so much as just demonstrate that this varies wildly with location.

  • Tea versus Coffee
  • Mostly only drink tea while I'm sick. I drink coffee every day getting up with my wife, but I'd rarely drink it on my own.

    A few weeks ago my wife went out of town for a long weekend and I had the most persistent headache that wouldn't go away. When she came back, it went away as soon as I started drinking coffee with her and I realized it was caffeine withdrawal. I hate being physically dependent on coffee, but it's a big part of our morning ritual.

  • Do you like America? Why or why not?
  • I love America. I'm rather less fond of some of the people in it. The land is beautiful and varied. There is so much space here. And the constitution is really special, I think, though not perfect. The biggest flaw is people haven't been taking politics seriously and have elected unserious people.

    I swore to defend it many years ago. At the time I was a kid just paying lip service to a required oath, swearing to a god I never believed in, but the truth is I do love it and I would fight for it, warts and all.

  • Do your parents help you financially?
  • I don't understand the Jaguar at all. He keeps it in a storage facility and I've never even seen it. Whatever. I never counted on any kind of inheritance from them, so I guess they can spend it up however they want, but I've been out of work for three months now, chewing up the meager retirement I've managed to save just keeping bills paid, and it's just frustrating.

  • Do your parents help you financially?
  • My parents have never helped me. They've never been able to. On the other hand, we've given them a fucking car to make it easier for them to help us out with watching kids and running them around. Then my dad bought a Jaguar. And he has a boat. And a truck. But they didn't have air conditioning for about a decade because they couldn't afford it.

    I love them, but they are selfish and stupid when it comes to money. As long as they leave my sister (who is disabled and unable to work) some extra money when they pass so I don't have to pay a bunch for her, too, I'll be happy.

  • U.S. soldier in Japan charged with sexually assaulting teenage girl in Okinawa
  • That 1995 thing was a huge fucking deal at the time. It came out that shit like that happened before more than once and the army protected the perpetrators. But that particular potato was just too fucking hot and those fuckers did time in a Japanese prison.

    Might've been the incident that made me realize the rest of the world might not think we are big damn heroes.

  • What’s the worst piece of technology you’ve ever owned?
  • My ring used to do that shit. I stopped using it for like a year. Then I was bitching about it and someone said they just got one and it worked great. So I tried it again out of spite to show what a piece of shit it was and now it works within a couple of seconds. shrug

  • is this the right way to establish boundaries with my nosy coworkers at the hospital?
  • Some people are going to be offended unless you participate in their games. In the army I had someone tell me he was going to punch me if I didn't drink at a get together. So I drank. I probably would've anyway, but he was super weird about it.

    Redirect conversation, be noncommittal, let yourself get pulled away by duties, etc. Eventually if you're lucky you just won't be in the clique any more. But they're never going to understand what you're telling them without offense because they just don't want to. There is no polite, easy way to do this that isn't going to upset them. They will feel like you think you're better than them.

  • www.nbcnews.com Live updates: Iran’s retaliatory attack on Israel has begun

    Iran has launched drones toward Israel, IDF spokesman Daniel Hagari said in a statement, in an attack that Tehran had promised to carry out after its embassy in Damascus was hit last week.

    Live updates: Iran’s retaliatory attack on Israel has begun
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