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My boyfriend likes using anal toys to masturbate but doesn’t want to be pegged by me
  • Take it slow. Really really slow. If he’s not comfortable with that then don’t push the issue. He’ll let you know when he’s ready, and when he does sprint to the toys store, and grab lots of lube. Also be sure to slap everything in sight when your new found dickery when it gets to that point. My wife seemed get a kick out of that lol.

  • My boyfriend likes using anal toys to masturbate but doesn’t want to be pegged by me
  • It’s difficult to really speak on your personal experience. Because I’m not in your relationship, or in your S.O. Head. All I can offer is my experience, and recommendations based on that. For me a straight guy pegging I a very emasculating experience. Despite it being very pleasurable. I’m not a femboy, or anything, and I am definitely on the masculine side of being a male so there was a big hill to climb for me. Shit I’m still climbing in some ways. So I would like sneak around, and steal my wife’s toys. Eventually she caught on, and it was an OMG I’ve always wanted to moment lol. She was very sly about it though. I think she understood what something like that would do to the a-typical male physiology. So she helped me find the toys, and let me progress things at my pace. That pace was something like 5 years later, and I started talking about strap ons. Anyways we had one 3 days later, she shipped the kids off to grandmas for the weekend, closed the blinds, and pranced around the house with her new found dickery slapping everything she could with it but the dog lol. Still to this day I think there is something emasculating about pegging to me despite me enjoying it, and openly so in my relationship. For example sometimes for some men getting hard with anal is difficult. Sometimes that’s physiological, but I can’t remember exactly what I read that explained why that is. For me that definitely happens sometimes, and other times I’m hard as a rock, and other times I can’t get it up, but I can tell for some reason it’s not physiological, and likely physiological. It’s weird that I can’t shut that part of me up all the time, but whateve’s I’m not stopping something that feels good because it makes me subconsciously feels less manly. My assumption about your boyfriend is exactly that, and I would recommend many other conversations with other men until you hear something that makes since based on what you know about your S.O. I could very well be way off base, but my assumption is that it’s something inside him physiologically that he’s not comfortable addressing atm. If that is the case just slow your roll towards butt stables for a while. The more you push the issue the faster he’ll run from it. Just drop the topic, and enjoy what you have now. When he’s ready he’ll start dropping hints, or outright bring up the topic. When he does then sprint to the finish line lol. In the meantime he enjoys that on a personal level so support that, and maybe recommend some toys for him, and judge his reaction. Best of luck to ya

  • My boyfriend likes using anal toys to masturbate but doesn’t want to be pegged by me
  • It’s difficult to really speak on your personal experience. Because I’m not in your relationship, or in your S.O. Head. All I can offer is my experience, and recommendations based on that. For me a straight guy pegging I a very emasculating experience. Despite it being very pleasurable. I’m not a femboy, or anything, and I am definitely on the masculine side of being a male so there was a big hill to climb for me. Shit I’m still climbing in some ways. So I would like sneak around, and steal my wife’s toys. Eventually she caught on, and it was an OMG I’ve always wanted to moment lol. She was very sly about it though. I think she understood what something like that would do to the a-typical male physiology. So she helped me find the toys, and let me progress things at my pace. That pace was something like 5 years later, and I started talking about strap ons. Anyways we had one 3 days later, she shipped the kids off to grandmas for the weekend, closed the blinds, and pranced around the house with her new found dickery slapping everything she could with it but the dog lol. Still to this day I think there is something emasculating about pegging to me despite me enjoying it, and openly so in my relationship. For example sometimes for some men getting hard with anal is difficult. Sometimes that’s physiological, but I can’t remember exactly what I read that explained why that is. For me that definitely happens sometimes, and other times I’m hard as a rock, and other times I can’t get it up, but I can tell for some reason it’s not physiological, and likely physiological. It’s weird that I can’t shut that part of me up all the time, but whateve’s I’m not stopping something that feels good because it makes me subconsciously feels less manly. My assumption about your boyfriend is exactly that, and I would recommend many other conversations with other men until you hear something that makes since based on what you know about your S.O. I could very well be way off base, but my assumption is that it’s something inside him physiologically that he’s not comfortable addressing atm. If that is the case just slow your roll towards butt stables for a while. The more you push the issue the faster he’ll run from it. Just drop the topic, and enjoy what you have now. When he’s ready he’ll start dropping hints, or outright bring up the topic. When he does then sprint to the finish line lol. In the meantime he enjoys that on a personal level so support that, and maybe recommend some toys for him, and judge his reaction. Best of luck to ya

  • [Dallas Morning News] Most Texas beaches pose safety risks due to high fecal bacteria levels, report says
  • All of these beaches listed here, but Corpus Christie are in the direct path of the Trinity river which is where waste waster effluent leaves the DFW area. This shouldn’t be a surprise knowing that, and it has certainly been brought up in the past that that might be a problem

  • “I can’t believe you won’t let me near your children” Says transgender piano teacher.
  • I’m not ok with what I’m seeing here tbh, but I’ve seen the trans community in my area, and they aren’t doing this stuff. So we cool. Id imagine that is the case with most of the trans community, but I really only have my anecdote to point to. I’m definitely not going to defend this person in particular though, and like wise any cis individuals screwing with kids inappropriately are right the fuck out of my desire to defend them as well.

  • The Right to Repair Is Law in Minnesota. California Should Be Next
  • This is good for the appliance repair industry manufacturers have been moving towards specialty diagnostic tools recently that you have to have to diagnose, and can only get if you’re manufacturer authorized to do there warranty work, and make Pennies doing so. When we were authorized with Samsung they bombarded us constantly with “they took er jobs” propaganda when unreality the entire industry is so overwhelmed that I wish people would take some of my jobs. We don’t need manufacturers. They need us. Unless there are proprietary tools then we have to, or just don’t work on there appliances any more. Which isn’t good for the consumer at all.

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    Second largest Lemmy instance preemptively un-friends Facebook
  • I moved here from Reddit my I have 3 boxes to check off before I can commit to a home for social media. A community that rivals Reddit which is tough to do. They are some of the snarkiest bastards alive, decentralized of which Lenny gets kinda right, but ultimately someone owns this server, and that’s pretty centralized, and open source to avoid social media for profit. I haven’t found one out probably 69, or so that I’ve tried. If someone were to check all those boxes they’d eventually blow the top off of social media.

  • Does it feel like the fediverse is exclusively used by older tech nerds?
  • This is pretty accurate. I was one of those that left Reddit, and started the search for something else. I went through sooo many different options, and landed here for now. I spent a large amount of time looking a Nostr clients. They could be a good option in like a couple of years. Some of those projects have good teams working on things, but they’re all just so new man. The sad part is the projects with the forsite to focus on diversified content have little funding, or terrible developers. Alternatively the project that are clean, and crisp are all Twitter clones parroting bitcoin 24/7, and acting like if they keep talking about it non stop everyone will magically come around to freedom money lol. For what it’s worth Lemmy has had some of the best diversity of content thus far, but it is not without concern for me. So I’m here for now anyways, and if things go well I’ll be here tomorrow too.

  • I miss reddit
  • But the replies to deleted comments still remained so you could kinda see how big of an ass the dude was, but not exactly, and when the question was in-fact to stupid for r/nostupidquestions