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Goal-setting Thread

Hi everyone! Saw the announcement and immediately ran here.

My question is this: do any of you have any goals that you've been actively working on?

For me, I've been trying to work on my GED that I abandoned a decade ago. Signed up for courses and everything.

Another thing I am trying to learn is more about Dialectical Behaviour Therapy and how that can help me learn how to cope with stress.

Finally, I have major ADHD so I've been trying to do note-taking in my day to day life. Started journaling, taking notes on Youtube videos I watch that I think are important for me to remember, habit tracking, so forth.

How about you? What are you trying to do to better yourself?

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  • Hey I see this thread is more geared towards personal betterment which is of course important and a beautiful thing on it's own but I don't want it to distract from the intention of this community which is community betterment. Would you all be happy with a monthly personal development thread that I can sticky to the top? I can see this is something a lot of you are looking for and I know loving yourself makes it easier to better serve your community so it's not completely off topic but wasn't exactly the intention. I can sticky this one for now.

    • Oh sure!! Sorry bout that, I read in the description that self help and betterment also counted for the community so I was a little excited haha;;

  • I'm trying to keep up with exercise and learn to love my body. So far the exercise is consistent, but the latter is much harder. I'm trying to learn Finnish, but it's been very slow without anyone to talk to. I might end up paying for tutoring

  • I've been putting together a proposal for a community garden. The location I want is absolutely ideal, just an unused corner of lawn boardering a hospice/care home just behind our village main street. Its near the play ground and across the parking from the native bush reserve.

    I'm running into some hurdles with how the location is classed as it is listed as bush even though this corner will not be replanted. This particular corner has been unused for years and not a part of the dog running areas or sports fields. The concerns I was told was about wildlings spredding from the garden but my plan is to implement a banned plants list including everything on the regional plants of concern list as well as plants known for their invasive nature like mint, borage, and foreign wildflowers. The goal is to grow more food staples for the community, educate on backyard gardening with talks on composting, wormfarms, saving seeds, and setting up a garden. I'm really hopeful but not convinced I'll get the location. We'll see 🤞

    My other project is setting up a community workshop to share the building with our toy library. Its a huge space and the council wants it to be productive. I think a workshop with vetted members who can have 24h access and open memberships with set access times would be ideal. Still sorting approval and then funding but the goal is to have the garage basics that can be hired out as needed and some in-house workshop staples like a lathe, larger table saw, and mitre saw. I would also like it to have some community robustness staples like a large freezer with frozen meals, a washer, and dryer set up, maybe a spare fridge and a generator or two.

    Besides that just updating the toy library catalogue with images to make it easier to navigate and adding a spot for missing peices so I can look for replacements in the 2nd hand shops and dump.

    • A community garden is a dope idea! Good luck, hope you can get it! :)

      • Thank you! Presentation to the board is next monday so I'll know soon enough. It would suck to not get it as there is no where else in the community that would have the traffic to sustain a real community garden. I have a feeling it would just end up as allotments for serious gardeners and be less inviting to those only garden-curious. Where I want to put it, half the village will go by and be tempted in with some tasty midwalk snacks

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