containerd on my homelab cluster, docker on my dev machine.
I really want to use podman, and I occasionally do for a few weeks at a time. In 99% of usecases, it does work identically to Docker. But there are weird edge cases, especially when it comes to privileged containers, where podman's behaviour differs from docker's, and I just end up switching back.
There is (still) some bugged things on podman (like static ips not working the way it should ,if my memory does not fail me.). And because of that, I'm running docker 24/7.