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I could never do this, my car is one the few sacred places that can be truly my own. I'm not even sure I can let someone else sit in the driver's seat
That's so foreign to me. For me, car is a tool to get from A to B, and I prefer to spend as little time in it as I can. I have a dedicated space at home (my home office, my desk, etc), and I protect that, but I don't care at all about my car.
It's so interesting to me how differently people see the same thing.
For me an office is so foreign, lol. Maybe it's partly because my car has functionally been my home multiple times in my life. But there is also something so comfortably isolating about being able to lock myself in the car with some music where nobody can talk to me and the chaos of the world can be left in the rear view mirror for a bit.
I think everyone needs a space like that just for themselves, and needs to create it for sanity purposes. You've chosen your office and I the shitty little Civic Si sitting in the drive, and both are simultaneously boring tools and personal sanctuaries.
Yup, agreed. My "home office" is just the guest bedroom, and when we have guests, I move my desk to my bedroom (really quick since I have everything mounted to the desk). So if I need a moment to myself, I go in that room and lock the door. But most of the time, I just go to my bed and put my headphones on (big, sound-isolating cans), since if I'm in my "office," I often think of work stuff.
When I'm at work and need some time, I don't go to my car, I go for a short walk outside my building and find someplace secluded.
And that's honestly always how I've been. When I got my first car, I didn't have a cell phone, so sitting in my car was incredibly boring and I'd prefer to be almost anywhere else. I'd occasionally bring a book to read if I thought I'd be delayed or something, but even then, I'd usually prefer to sit on a bench or something outside. I have just never seen my car as a place I'd ever want to be, it's just the thing I take to get somewhere I want or need to be.
I wonder if I'm just weird, or if it's a younger generation thing, because I do see people hanging out in their cars somewhat often.