When you tell someone about your chronic illness and they're like
>Get well soon.
No I won't, but thanks
When you’re better […]
There’s no guarentee I’ll get better
You haven’t tried everything yet, what about more exercise?
[…] [leaves]
"I can't because I am dying" Okay see you in a few weeks!
When you tell a possible romantic partner, and they try to seem like they aren't concerned, but sneak in little questions about long-term consequences, "not because they care or anything".