Not being able to make an account on tildes kinda stopped me from even giving it a chance. Like I get they have valid reasons, but I want to curate my content and be able to be able to make the occasional comment.
I logged into my old account and yeah, it's still pretty quiet compared to Lemmy. Each group might only get 1 or 2 new posts a day from a casual glance. I think there's only been about 80 posts in the last 24 hours total which is OK I suppose.
I signed up for it a couple weeks ago. I just sent an email to ask to join then he sent me a sign-up invitation. I didn't send him a password or anything of the sort.