I've pretty much left everything - couldn't even pay myself an income anymore, because I just carry for him (in the first 2 months I was cooking every 2 hours for him, and then I'll to 4 different things, so he would eat anything)
I love him with my whole heart and pretty much nothing, but other love/wife, is important to me.
So yeah, we keep fighting. But at the moment we are out of ideas and options, and just can wait...