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I'm a systems librarian in an academic library. I moved over the Lemmy after Rexxit 2023. I've had an account on sdf.org since 2009 (under a different username), and so I chose this instance out of a sense of nostalgia. I do all sorts of fiber arts (knitting, cross stitch, sewing) and love dogs.

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US Americans, do you identify first as a US citizen, someone from your state, or from your town/city?
  • Eh, I don't really identify with any of those. Maybe I'm "from Massachusetts"? I don't live there now and didn't grow up there, but that's where I went to college. The state I grew up in, Kentucky, has never felt like home.

  • How are you preparing your family for the inevitable, life insurance/will/etc?
  • My (unmarried) partner and I went to a lawyer together. The lawyer walked us through everything. We're basically leaving things to each other, with backups in case that's not an option. We have a special clause for who gets the dog if neither of us can--pup and some cash goes to a good friend, and we checked with friend ahead of time.

    Lawyer asked us for any relatives we'd like to specifically exclude from inheritance, and she wasn't judgey at the length of our lists.

    We're also each other's health care powers of attorney and decision-makers.

    I recommend doing this at a lawyer if you can, it makes things much less stressful.

  • Puberty blockers to be banned indefinitely for under-18s across UK
  • According to the 2021 census, trans people are .5% of the population. Jewish people are .4% of the population. Where is your cutoff for what population is too minor to care about?

  • Luigi Mangione Played 'Among Us,' Breathes Air
  • There was even a pig that got convicted in, like, 1700s France or something.

  • New Florida sex education curriculum excludes almost all information about sex
  • Freshman year of college, my friends group had to explain how stuff works to a member. She'd just gotten her first boyfriend and really needed The Talk.

    My mom handled things by just leaving out a copy of "What's Happening to My Body?", but then again, I was a very bookish child.

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  • My shoulder critic is my mom. I'm working on evicting her from my brain, but yeah. It's a thing.

  • Just Stop Oil activist, 77, faces jail recall as wrists too small for electronic tag
  • Depends. My feet are too small to keep me secure in my partner's inversion table, which tightens around the ankles. So, if the ankle monitor is similarly unable to go small enough, I'd expect a similar problem.

    On the other hand, I've worn ankle bracelets just fine. But an ankle monitor might be less flexible/able to tighten into the curves of the ankle.

  • MAGA supporter says if wife doesn't get pregnant during sex then it's 'gay sex'
  • My current theory is he doesn't experience pleasure or closeness from sex and doesn't have the emotional capacity to understand that others might. Maybe he thinks others are making up/exaggerating the non-reproductive benefits they receive from sex?

    This is not the representation we asexuals need.

    Just because sex is boring AF to me doesn't mean others can't enjoy it. I have hobbies y'all might not enjoy. Let people enjoy stuff!

  • Parenting
  • It's from Encanto

  • Bathroom mishap
  • Yep. Heard a coworker vomiting her guts out in the accessible stall and I asked if she needed help. Turns out she was just having morning sickness.

  • Why I regret using 23andMe: I gave up my DNA just to find out I’m British | Technology | The Guardian
  • My aunts' grandparents came from Poland. Their parents spoke Polish in the house. They were raised with a whole close-knit gaggle of cousins, also with Polish grandparents and parents. The old country wasn't that long ago for them. They've visited.

    Me, eh. My dad married someone from Appalachia and I grew up away from his family. I haven't heard Polish spoken outside of my great-grandaunt'a funeral. I like pierogi, kielbasa, and sauerkraut because they remind me of my dad. He'd cook them when he was feeling nostalgic.

    I have looked into claiming Polish citizenship through descent (mostly because an EU passport would be comforting what with USA politics), but my folks came over too early for that.

  • I love when people, particularly Americans, claim Irish heritage, no matter how 'genetically' spurious such claims might be
  • Tldr: thinking out loud about my relationship with Poland in a way that might be a cognate to how others feel about Ireland

    Yeah, we Americans have an odd relationship with the countries our ancestors come from. My dad's grandparents were all from the region now known as Poland. He was always fond of Polish foods, I think because that's what he grew up with. His niece wore a borrowed traditional Polish dress for her confirmation. My aunts knit and are into Polish patterns. Lots of Polish love on that side of the family.

    My mom's family has been in Appalachia since the 1800s. That side brings in Hatfield and McCoy blood and carries on those traditions by being a disfunctional mess. I don't associate with that side.

    Given the choice, it feels better to lean into Polish stuff. Pierogi and cabbage+anything is a comfort food. Makes me feel closer to my dad. So, for me, it's not about the country Poland. It's about distancing myself from my asshole mom's family and embracing my dad's relatives.

  • Which podcast player do you use for android?
  • I moved over to Podcast Addict from BeyondPod. I'm pretty happy here.

  • I can't imagine being paid to act like I enjoy working in the office
  • I did like working in an open office back in a previous career. I did QA and was integrated with a team of devs. It was lovely to turn to the person whose code I was testing and ask for clarification on a behavior. There really was a lot of teamwork facilitated by the lack of privacy.

    The office had small rooms with doors where you could make phone calls without distracting everyone.

  • BDFL for life
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  • BDFL for life
  • Nah, I just forgot about it for 4 years until I got the "accepted" email. And it was 1 line. 1 character, even.

  • BDFL for life
  • On another project, my 4-year-old readme update was finally approved this month. Timely.

  • Pete Hegseth considers himself to be at war with basically everybody to Trump’s left, and it is by no means clear that he means war metaphorically.
  • My current assessment is that having a gun in the house would increase the risk of a household member's suicidal ideation turning into suicide. That risk is higher than projected benefit of being able to shoot a threat in the face.

    I grew up with guns. I've enjoyed shooting guns. I should not have a gun in the house..

    I am team "know your neighbors and have a disaster readiness kit". My neighbors are great. We help each other.

  • GOP senator introduces bill to legally erase transgender people
  • They can also force transgender people in institutional settings (prison, college, military, etc) to be housed with the wrong gender. That can be dangerous.

  • In the 1980s perfect strangers drove you places.
  • Flashback to riding the bus home from middle school in Kentucky when my slightly older friend confessed that she'd been raped by a cousin but she was still a virgin because it'd been anal.

    I didn't think I gave particularly good advice on that topic in 7th grade.

  • stitchbow floss holders fit into 35mm negative binder sheets

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    Nick Stroia on Instagram: "Me most days—& it hasn’t me proved me wrong yet. Granted I’ve never actually wrestled an alligator.

    www.instagram.com Nick Stroia on Instagram: "Me most days—& it hasn’t me proved me wrong yet. Granted I’ve never actually wrestled an alligator. #vintagestyle #americana #handdrawntype #illustration #typegang #buffalonickelco"

    47K likes, 132 comments - buffalonickelco on May 23, 2024: "Me most days—& it hasn’t me proved me wrong yet. Granted I’ve never actually wrestled an alligator. #vintagestyle #americana...".

    Nick Stroia on Instagram: "Me most days—& it hasn’t me proved me wrong yet. Granted I’ve never actually wrestled an alligator. 

#vintagestyle #americana #handdrawntype #illustration #typegang #buffalonickelco"
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    I just finished this kit today

    I started it to keep my hands occupied during a class. I love the simple 2-color pattern. I picked the kit up from Stitched Modern.

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    Reddit Was Fun @lemmy.world grysbok @lemmy.sdf.org

    Sadness. Joey stopped working today

    I'd been using the Joey app to keep tabs on a few subreddits I'm fond of. It finally stopped working today.

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    Thinking of visiting a pawn shop. What should I know?

    So, I've never been to a pawn shop before. I'm curious what's there, but TV makes them seem shady and odd. What should I know before I visit? I'm sort of expecting a cross between an antique and a thrift store, that sort of vibe.

    I'm in the USA and don't intend to pawn anything.

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    Samson shoving a lion in the face. Woodblock print. Thomas Bewick. ca 1785

    Woodblock print of a grumpy-faced man in a tunic shoving a lion in the face. The lion's head is turned towards the viewer and he has a goofy look on his face. His tail is held high. The man holds a club in his left hand. Surrounding the lion and man is a tree, an embankment, and foliage.

    Found at: The British Museum

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    "Daikyokuba" (English: "Big Circus"). Japanese print. ca 1871.

    Image description: Japanese print with orange background. Print shows various circus performers, including people interacting with horses, an elephant on a barrel, a man standing on a tiger holding a second tiger's mouth open and a third tiger resting on his arm, clowns tumbling, acrobats, and horses on a teeter-totter.

    Found at: Library of Congress

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    Hercules and the Nemean Lion. Paul Manship. 19?4 (prior to 1965)

    Image description: metal statue of a man wrestling with a lion.

    Found at The Smithsonian.

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    "Swallowed by a Wolf". Jessie Oonark. 1970

    I post a lot of pre-modern-era art from European artists. So, I thought I'd mix it up a bit with this work by Inuit artist Jessie Oonark.

    Image description: Work is on paper. Forms are defined by bold swatches of color. The main figure is a side profile of the green head of a wolf, with brown eye and an open mouth filled with point black teeth. In the mouth of the wolf is a man. His purple-brown legs stick out of the wolf's mouth. His torso is visible through the wolf's mouth as a white man-shape. A smaller animal's head--maybe another wolf-- is defined by an orange outline. The orange animal has its nose touching the throat of the green wolf. Its teeth are also showing. Below the artwork is the title, caption, and signature of the artist.

    Found at: Montreal Museum of Fine Arts

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    Always look a gift horse in the mouth. Magazine cover. 1909

    Image description: a white-haired man in a blue coat with stars on it and red/white striped pants (Uncle Sam) looks inside a horse's mouth while a man in a white coat looks on. The white coat man is labeled Aldritch. The horse is labeled "Central Bank". The horse's teeth are labeled "Wall Street Interests".

    Found at: Library of Congress

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    "Lion tamer". ca 1873.

    Image Description: a man with a very large, dark moustache stands in a cage surrounded by 3 lions and 2 tigers. The man stares straight at the viewer. The man wears what looks like plate mail on his torso, with fancy gold shoulder thingies, red sleaves, a short red skirt, white tights, and fancy bejeweled boots. His hat is red with a blue feather. The big cats are all in fierce poses. A maned lion stands with his paws on the man's shoulder. The man holds open the other maned lion's mouth.

    Found at: Library of Congress

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    “When It Comes to the Lion, Business Between Ben and Jim, It’s Nip and Tuck”. Political cartoon. Thomas Nast. 1884.

    Image description: etched political cartoon. A lion is on a wheeled pedestal labeled "British". A man in a suit and befeathered top hat twists the lion's tail. A bald man in a suit twists its head. The lion's mouth is open. Behind the men and lion is a storefront labeled "furs". A man watched open-mouthed through the window. Next to the cartoon is a colored registry thingy, for calibrating colors.

    A detailed explanation of the cartoon is at HarpWeek (and TBH their image of the cartoon is clearer than the one I uploaded. I chose the LOC one because the permissions were clearer). In summary: In American politics, the Republican presidential nominee and the Greenback-Labor nominee were both critical of Great Britain (represented by the lion).

    Found at: Library of Congress

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    Samson and the Lion. Woodblock. ca 1498

    Image description: woodblock carved into the form of the Biblical Samson holding open a lion's mouth. The carving is fine and the wood is dark with the ink used in printmaking.

    This is the woodblock used to make prints similar to the one previously posted, https://lemmy.sdf.org/post/892435 .

    Found at: https://www.metmuseum.org/art/collection/search/336211

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    marginalia of Samson and the Lion. 1254

    Image description: 2-column handwritten text. Small doodle of Samson holding open a lion's mouth, in the upper right corner.

    Found at: https://www.bl.uk/onlinegallery/onlineex/illmanus/roymanucoll/m/011roy000001b12u00080000.html

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    Samson opening the lion's mouth

    Image description: statue of Samson attempting to open the mouth of a lion whose mouth is firmly shut.

    Found at: https://www.bildindex.de/document/obj20453994

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    Samson and the Lion. Candlestick. ca 1850-1900

    Image description: black metal candlestick. Samson sits on top of a lion and holds its mouth open. A column to hold a candle comes out of his back.

    Found at: Candlestick: Samson and the Lion - Rijksmuseum, Netherlands - Public Domain. https://www.europeana.eu/item/90402/BK_16915

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    Hercules and the Nemean Lion. Ceiling of King's Inner Chamber, Stirling Castle

    www.flickr.com Stirling Head, Hercules Slays the Nemean Lion

    The first of his twelve labours. On the ceiling of the King's Inner Chamber, Stirling Castle.

    Stirling Head, Hercules Slays the Nemean Lion

    Image description: Image is straight up at a ceiling. There is a center circular medallion with a naked man sitting on a lion. The man is holding the lion's mouth open. There are two other lions partly in frame--one left and one right of the scene. Around the circle is gold and red braid. Outside of the circle are filigree decorations. Overall colors are red, white, blue, gold.

    Found at: https://www.flickr.com/photos/dun_deagh/7274023374/

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    Samson and the Lion. Oven tile. ca 1490.

    Image description: Item is an unglazed terra cotta tire. It looks a bit dirty or sooty, but is clearly still yellow-tan. It depicts a 3d scene of a man with long hair, a hat with big feather, and tunic. The man is sitting on a lion and holding open a lion's mouth. Behind the man and lion is a stone (or brick) wall about waist high. Above it is an archway. Outside the archway is a floral decoration.

    Found at: Met Museum___

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    Samson and the Lion. Cup made out of coconut. Hans van Amsterdam. 1533/34

    According the the Met Museum, coconuts were exotic to Europeans and a cup made from a coconut could be used to neutralize poisons.

    Image description: Tall silver and coconut goblet with lid. The bowl is made of most of a coconut, the base, stand, and lid of the goblet are made of silver. The coconut is engraved with biblical scenes, including Samson holding open a lion's mouth. Cherubs look on and there's filigree. There are also silver rams and roman? soldiers connecting the silver base and the top of the goblet.

    Found at: The Met

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    Photograph of statue "Samson and the Lion". 1939 NY World's Fair.

    Image description: a statue of Samson (with stylized hair in coils?) holding a lion by its lower jaw and its tail. The lion is suspended in the air. Image is black and white photograph. In the background is a flag with a spoked wheel on it.

    Note: statue was in the "transportation" area of the NY World's Fair, in front of the Ford building. Other flags included air planes, propellers.

    Related images: NYPL: scrapbook page of the fair (where you get a better view of the flag in the background--them emblem is a wheel, not the swastika I worried it was)

    !Further away view of the statue, with transportation-related flags in the foreground and the ford building in the background

    NYPL--image of lady in 1930s garb standing on the statue. The statue is huge.___

    Found at: New York Public Library

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