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Coskii Coskii @lemmy.blahaj.zone

One of them Carpenter nerd types.

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can i get a uhhhhhh rule?
  • How much are these muffins?

  • By executive order, everyone is now female 🎉
  • I would assume that there are different 'reasons' that cause the broader feel of asexuality. Mine is a complete apathy for the want or need of it. I can enjoy making others feel good, such as giving them a massage in a normal way. I can feel that my work towards helping them feel good is rewarding in and of itself.

    I figured out my side of things when after being with my partner for many years I was getting increasingly frustrated that while they were able to enjoy the experience for what seemed perpetual, my side of things remained the same, regardless of whatever was done. To feel the same for oral or penetrative felt like something was wrong to me so I started looking around at other types of options. I did whatever appealed to me but in the end none of it changed anything for me.

    For other people, they may have a different kind of situation where the act in any form is uncomfortable which can be a personality quirk or in some a complete lack of empathy. Something that is blocking them from experiencing what is in effect a 'really intense massage' that some people crave. I'm not going to try and list all the various societal/personal/learned behaviors people have about sex across the globe which may play a part in their enjoyment/need/desire for sex.

    Edit: cleaned up a small section I wasn't happy with and I was hurrying at the end of my lunch break to try and get all the words out. And Also:

    Anecdotally, I've been very lucky to have moved many places and seen many things, met many people on a close enough level that knowing how often they sought sexual activity. I know some people who are obsessed with getting some, some who are relatively indifferent, and others who equate it to a smooth drink at the end of a good night. All over the place in terms of how much they focus on it.

    After realizing that I may very well be ace in my own right, other little puzzle pieces started to fit together. I was in a long distance relationship with my high-school sweetheart after high-school for about 5 years. I had no issues with lacking any kind of intimate touch, my partner needed it and despite all that cheating stigma, went ahead and found some anyways. It was important enough to them that waiting for someone to appear once every 6ish months wasn't an option for them. I didn't understand it then.. because again, I had no issues waiting that long or longer. I would talk to them almost everyday and that was more than enough for me.

  • By executive order, everyone is now female 🎉
  • Much like anything else, being asexual is a spectrum. It took me a very long time to figure out I was and that's because I personally didn't get any physical satisfaction out of sex, but I enjoyed the part where I made my partner absolutely melt with pleasure. Feeling romantic or emotional pleasure from sex is not uncommon, especially when coupled with someone who gets a ton of pleasure from it. That being said, I haven't had sex in over a year, and from the way things look, I'm not going to for a very long time. I won't say it's voluntary though it's definitely not because my partner doesn't want to.

  • Please help me secure an ancient email address.
  • That is/was the plan, I was just wondering what insights people who actually know about privacy stuff would have overall. And I have been educated nicely thanks to a bunch of the folks on here.

  • Please help me secure an ancient email address.
  • I rotate my password every 6 months at this point. It's about as secure as a human who wants to remember a password could be. It's 20+ characters with all the various password needed inclusions.

    And yeah, I can access it through an external application without issue. But if I ever want to change settings or make new email rules it becomes an issue.

  • Please help me secure an ancient email address.
  • Fairly sure Gmail wasn't around 28 years ago.

  • Please help me secure an ancient email address.

    I still use my first ever made email address, at this point it's pushing 28 years old. However I have a major problem. I can rarely log into it anymore. There are so many attempts to login to the account daily from whoever out there that wants to gain access that the login is normally locked out for a period of time. At this point I've moved everything of financial value off of it as someone did get access once, but there are still plenty of random little things I'd like to hang on to it for.

    I know I can just make a new one and ditch that one as a quick solution, but I figured i'd ask a wider community if they had any insights I might not have. It's a Microsoft account, and my windows is tied to it, but I'm pretty sure I can just migrate that to something new.

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    Elon Musk rages and Leaks Asmongold's DMs and Removes His Blue Checkmark
  • Oh no, I can't believe that Elon would just give shameless content straight to asmon like that... Wait stop, don't make a video about getting unchecked on Twitter because the owner got mad and unchecked you tor calling him out on his silly video game stuff. I'm sure the video won't at all be a viral hit..

  • what's your most down voted comment?
  • In all my days, the two most hated comments I dropped were:

    1. Explaining that traveling specific speeds is not inherently less safe, but that context of conditions and location heavily change how safe we feel.

    2. Attempting to give someone a free trip across the country so that I could have a body to assign one of her three cats to, since it was just after covid and finding any way to get a cat across the country was strangely difficult or exceptionally expensive. Apparently I'm a terrible person for not including a place to stay, or a return trip, or anything? Like.. I'm trying to save money getting a cat across the country, why would I then spend more money for someone I literally don't know? It was more of a 'please help get cat from a to b, I'll pay for it' Ended up dragging my wife with me for the third person because people were being weird and angry about it.

  • Early Access Announcements - Upcoming Changes in Path of Exile 2 0.1.1 - Forum - Path of Exile
  • I haven't dabbled in the market just yet. I should have awhile back. I just wanted to get a feel for the game, see the options available to me and then maybe have some idea of what to trade for.

    For my merc, a decent crossbow with a useful implicit is obvious enough, but aside from that and more skill support slots, I don't really know what I should be focusing on. It's one of the reasons I haven't been trading at all yet. The other two are still very much in the campaign crunch and don't need any trade just yet.

    I'm a bit lost on where I want my sorc to go.. I thought I had a plan, but attempting it didn't work out at all, so I took a break from her in act 1b to gather myself and have a good think about it.

    And I wanted to try a bonk man, so I made one. Outside of the act 2 boss I ran into last night, I've been cruising through pretty nicely. Nothing else has even been a blip on the difficulty radar.

    Update: I augmented my flask with another modifier and managed to squeak out a win. It wasn't pretty, but it did work. And since then I have had no issues. My dps is ever so slightly dropping off, but I can still clear the room in a couple attacks, and in a few more levels my attack will be back on the rise.

  • What should one do if they're so addicted to POE2 that they can't think about anything else while at work?
  • Since it's really only the one attack that gets me, you'd think that'd work.. But he uses it much too frequently for that.

    I struggled a bit with my mercenary the first time through, breezed with my sorc, and now with a warrior who has the absolute highest dps of any class I've used so far is having the most struggles because dodging that attack at close range is damned near impossible. The guy can spin in a complete 180 in a split second to catch you with it if you're in his face. It has a charge up, and you'd think I'd know to gtfo, but with everything else that's going on, it's a bit tricky to avoid the massive aoe line it forms.

    I'll probably just grab the 140ish energy shield unique helmet from storage to help cheese it a bit.

  • What should one do if they're so addicted to POE2 that they can't think about anything else while at work?
  • Come watch me struggle with early game content so badly it'll make you really wonder how someone can be so inept at the game.

    Seriously, stuck on the act 2 boss on my third character.. I know the moves, I have the dps, I just can't fucking dodge his stupid damned claymore smash for the life of me and it takes over half my life every time. There are no adds which means I can't regain flask charges and while I can get him down to a fifth of his life every run.

  • What are you surprised that people pay for, when there are free alternatives in existence?
  • I recently purchased Affinity photo, which did most of what I used to use Adobe for. No subscription, one time purchase, and I'll likely never need to worry about that again.

    I tried gimp a few times and found it frustrating to use.

  • How rare is it for people to live without anger?
  • While I was going through my posts on Twitter and deleting them all, I noticed that nearly all of the were gripes or complaints about something during my day. That's not to say I had a lot of bad days but I'd be more likely to want to vent them than just vibing through the good days in social media silence. Each person is very different, but unless I was in a space where socializing was a daily thing, my tendency was to be more negative than positive Most of the time.

  • Early Access Announcements - Upcoming Changes in Path of Exile 2 0.1.1 - Forum - Path of Exile
  • I've got nearly 4k armor and evasion. I can take/avoid a good amount of hits. My issue is that if I pull too many guys (which happens to be like 8 or more) I cannot kill them fast enough. Getting a decent crossbow has been a thorn in that characters side for the entire playthrough. I'm currently using rapid shots with gas/explosive grenades because it's the only viable path dps wise I could find. Even then it's absolutely terrible. I still haven't beaten the forgemaster in act 3 brutal because I run out of arena.

    I honestly think I've used less than a half dozen total weapons with that character for the entire time, from level 1 to 70. It's so strange to me that the hardest part of the game has been loot drops.

  • Early Access Announcements - Upcoming Changes in Path of Exile 2 0.1.1 - Forum - Path of Exile
  • I hope they give me a 'I'm a path of Exile 1 baby and need respawns on all maps' because I made my own build and while it's ok and I can do basic tier 1 maps incredibly slowly (my dps is straight butt at the moment).

    I literally walk through each map, firing my crossbow forward to hopefully only draw a bit of aggro and then back pedal as much as needed until the enemy is dead. Rinse and repeat until I clear all the rare mobs.

    If a map has delirium on it I literally trigger it and then stand there waiting for it to end (I just found the 'end delirium' keybind over the weekend) . I haven't even bothered attempting any maps with a boss on them due to how normal mobs are causing me issues. The one life per map is such a deterrent for me at the moment I'm having a really hard time continuing with that character. The worst part is I know I'm only a few pieces of gear away from being able to handle myself well, but the rng gods have decided it's my role to struggle.

  • Early Access Announcements - Upcoming Changes in Path of Exile 2 0.1.1 - Forum - Path of Exile
  • In reference to cathedral bosses. Let me go find the exact time stamp.

    3:54 in the video in the link.

  • Why does the ban on TikTok matter to so many people?
  • I know it's not really the topic you considered... But yes, I do believe every drug should be legalized. If you consider the benefits alone it should be obvious that it is the correct choice.

    Drugs made by lisenced people/locations that use safe ingredients and are open to litigation if they end up making a bad batch.

    The revenue collected isn't going to some drug lord overseas, it's going into the country which you live instead.

    Dispensaries can be used secondary as a councelling/rehabilitation center.

    The long and the short if it is that if people want them, they will get them. I live in a place that hasn't legalized weed yet.. But if you are around certain neighborhoods at around 9am, it starts to smell very obvious that legality doesn't matter. While currently that's not surprising as many states near mine have legalized, we'll before that happened things were exactly the same.

    I don't want people to be addicted to drugs, but I don't see why we as a society shouldn't benefit at all from someone who is.

  • Why does the ban on TikTok matter to so many people?
  • For me it's not about TikTok. It's about using whatever flimsy, poorly worded law they will make to ban a platform I don't use to open the door for further bans and possible censorship in the future. A platform should be allowed to function if it can. If it's horribly made, or supremely unprofitable it'll find its own way out. I don't use it, I don't plan on ever using it, and honestly it doesn't affect my daily life outside of my mother in law thinking that some of the pallet crafts on there are worthwhile and me having to explain that they'll look good for a moment and then fall apart rather quickly.

  • Is Unreal Engine 5 really as bad as people seem to think it is? If so, why?
  • Let me go find the youtube video this is likely referencing.

    I think it's probably referring to this video.

    There's also the various devs who are using it to shortcut making their own models, making a growing catalog of increasingly homogenous looking games.

  • Ascendency trial introductory bosses are awful.

    I finally wormed my way to the second type of ascendency trial last night, and after a good rest I'm ready to properly vent about both of them.

    The first trial is a rogue like dungeon crawl in which getting hit too many times regardless of life totals ends your run. Across the various times I've run it, the stages themselves are not bad. You get to choose your path and hope everything works out with the positives and negatives of the new rooms you come across. The various challenges are also interesting.

    However, the final boss is absolutely abysmal to fight against. In a mode where the term honor is used, this thing has several area of effect attacks that aren't visually telegraphed at all. Even it's normal slam attack has a decently sized area of effect.

    Whats worse are the various and random effects it also has that spew projectiles all over the place. If you're not fast enough in killing the thing, the battlefield basically becomes a bullet hell. My first clear I spent more time looking at my character to see where safety was than the boss. It feels not great for the first encounter of this system to include what amounts to rng damage pings from out of no where.

    The second trial (and currently only other) trial you're introduced to is based on the ultimatum league from path 1. You choose a modifier, go into a space, and do the challenge. Finish that and you go to the next, stack a new modifier, and do the next challenge. It's fairly straight forward and some of the modifiers are terrifying but manageable... Until you get to the boss.

    The boss doesn't so much fight you as it does flop around the area farting annoying elemental effects everywhere. I'm glad I'm playing a ranged character so I can just not be near the damned thing.. But this is where those modifiers come in big. If you chose any of the mods that cause the ground to get more area of effect effects on it, good luck. The boss bounces around so much you will have to chase it down while also keeping an eye on any poison, ice, fire, or electricity on the ground.. And whatever other effects might be problematic. I probably died a good 4 times on the boss alone, and twice to the challenges before due to not minding my modifiers. (do NOT dodge roll through death bubbles.. They body block you.)

    I don't really feel cheated by either of them even after all of this is said and done.. But I do feel that they are incredibly poorly chosen for their respective trials and would really benefit from being moved to either later bosses, or elsewhere in the game.

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    How are you dying, Exile?

    Figured I'd ask how everyone is carrying on in a new game.

    Personally nearly all my deaths are boss related, a majority being purely based on a one shot kill, or a mechanic I failed to manage/know how to stop.

    Outside of bosses, it's just been getting body blocked by the hordes a few times.

    Out of all of it, I only felt two of my deaths felt unfair/completely unexpected.

    I've died about a dozen times so far and just made it to act 3.

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    What have your favorite underrated anime of the 2020's been so far?

    I feel like the article is extremely subjective, so I figured it'd be more fun to post your own top 10 good/bads.

    I'll start with mine.

    • Sleepy Princess in the Demon Castle
    • Dark Gathering
    • Ya Boy Kongming!
    • Great Pretender
    • Summertime Rendering
    • Miss Shachiku and the Little Baby Ghost
    • Diary of Our Days at the Breakwater
    • Uncle from Another World
    • Digimon Adventures (2020)
    • Muteking the Dancing Hero

    I tried thinking of anime that I'd suggest to friends who are already fairly active watchers, but for some reason or another had them slip through the cracks.

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    'Best' employers for fresh college grads.

    I mean.. In-N-Out burger at #2.

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    I can't wait to play this in 2028 or after.

    www.theverge.com Borderlands 4 is launching in 2025

    Borderlands is coming to consoles and PC next year.

    Borderlands 4 is launching in 2025

    Borderlands 4 has been announced for 2025. For a multitude of reasons, I'm more than happy to sit idly by and wait for a discounted game of the year edition or similar that includes the entirety of their dlc collection because you know there will be paid dlc. It's borderlands.

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    So I made a monored commander stax deck to end games quickly, but player removal was too strong.

    So I went ahead and converted it into a much more janky izzet deck that gifts my playgroup symmetrical damage triggers so that even when I die, the game continues its downward spiral.

    I'm still looking for cards to help me cast stuff both from not my hand, and not on my turn to maximize my commanders potential. Any suggestions are welcome.

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    Construction @lemm.ee Coskii @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Yesterday he didn't make it. (and I failed to post about it)

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    So I need a new handle and personality for the new one.

    I'm open to suggestions on both material and face.

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    I really wish they'd use a different method.

    scryfall.com type:planeswalker (game:paper) (set:blb or set:blc)

    11 Magic cards found where the card types include “planeswalker” and (the card is available on Paper) and (the set is “blb” or the set is “blc”)

    type:planeswalker (game:paper) (set:blb or set:blc)

    Of the 11 new printings of planeswalkers, 4 are in the Commander precons, 1 is normally collectible from the set, and the other 6 have the commander set symbol but aren't in the decks.

    This means that if you wanted a chance to pull them yourself from packs, you must be opening collectors boosters as they are the only ones with a slot for commander cards.

    It feels so scummy of them to not use special guest slot for cards like this. It's not the first time, and it doesn't only affect the planeswalkers. There are some rather pricy rats (marrow gnawer and Ink eyes) also secluded from standard pull tables this way.

    Anyone know when this started? I noticed it a year or so back when there was a green commander set card, but no green commander deck, but I cannot recall the card or set.

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    I am a professional construction carpenter. Feel free to ask me anything.

    I've been working in construction for the past 11 years at this point with a few years before that in a part time role. I'm more than happy to lend whatever knowledge or insights I may have about work, life, or whatever.

    I will be checking in sporadically to see if there are questions.

    EDITED WELL AFTER QUESTIONS STOPPED: I'm still active-ish on Lemmy, so if you happen to find this and have a question, I will likely still get back to you.

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    am I the problem?

    streamable.com Connect image viewing issue

    Watch "Connect image viewing issue" on Streamable.

    Connect image viewing issue

    It seems that I'm unable through either ineptitude or issue to view long pictures. Help?

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    Changed my Password on the Website.

    And ever since I changed my password, logging in through Jerboa puts me in a shrödinger state of access. I can see my subs and local posts but trying to view my profile or post will return a "not_logged_in" error or ask me to "Login First", and then disconnects the login account I was on and erases the login details for it. Please help.

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