You'll find outspoken people on both sides, but despite their words the world is not black and white. Do what you can, do what you feel is best. Any harm reduction is harm reduction and an all or nothing mentality isn't helping anyone anywhere.
I find vegan cooking to be easier, but I'm not a vegan and will eat meat at restaurants or if someone else cooks, or at least cuts the meat which is a total pain in the ass and leaves packaging that makes the garbage stink like nothing else.
The bitching is universal though. I used to take my dad's home cooked food to school and one that got the most questions was the spicy tofu and pork. I could call it literally 'tofu and pork' and people would ask if im vegan and if that's why I'm not muscular at all etc.